Me and my BF have been friends for a while and we have always hung out in the same group and so were all really good friends and so last week me and my best friend were talking and i guess they heard something that wasn't ment to be heard by ANY one else and they took it the wrong way and told my BF that i was going to break up with him and i'm not. I feel so confused and i told him that i wasn't going to break up with him and i feel that he doesn't belive me what on earth should i do??????
2006-12-18 05:07:40 · 6 answers · asked by Total_Pineapple_forever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Dear.... =)
Ask him if he has ever said anything, truthfully, that if it got repeated back to you, might not upset you?? Like talking about other girls, conversations with HIS friends about YOU, and so forth. Everyone says things that can be taken the wrong way.
If you can make this point to him, then explain that what you said didn't imply that you WERE going to break up with him, or were even THINKING about it, but was taken completely out of context...
Namaste,
--Tom
2006-12-18 05:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by glassnegman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... if you guys have been friends for soo long then he should really understand things from your point of view. Furthermore, if he respected you then he would trust you. Afterall trust is essential in a relationship, if he doesn't trust you then he doesn't deserve you.
However, it does depend on the thing someone heard you say. Maybe you should have a serious talk about whatever that thing was and just explain to him how much he means to you. And tell him... what's the worst that can happen?? That I'll break up with you. Does he really want to put his pride above whatever may happen between the two of you.
Good luck
2006-12-18 13:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about you will drive yourself nuts. Let it take it's course and I am sure it will just pass by, everything will be fine! Just don't bring it up anymore. If he brings it up tell him you already answered him and it should no longer be an issue.........
2006-12-18 13:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell people anything that you don't want repeated....it will bite you in the butt everytime...once his friends have poisoned him it is too late....start looking for another...and next time don't say anything to anyone that you don't want repeated.
2006-12-18 13:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rub your breastages on him.
2006-12-18 13:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u can do is tell him the truth!!!
2006-12-18 13:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋