I dont understand why my boyfriend is so mean to me. He constantly tells me im a loser and a piece of crap and im worthless. He's not like this all the time but most of the time hes telling me what to do and controlling. Should i get out and move on, or should i try to work with him?
2006-12-18 05:05:38 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a loser - LOSE HIM! You can get better and I don't even know what you look like. He sounds like my ex-husband - LEAVE HIM!
2006-12-18 05:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm not saying this to be mean
but just get my point across....
if your such a loser and a piece of
crap why on earth is he still with you???
To me people who say this to someone the say they care about is a piece of crap in my book and you should dump the loser!
2006-12-18 05:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Total_Pineapple_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he's the worthless piece of crap n u deserve better!!! get out of the relationship now before its too late n uve got no confidenc left. My ex always told me i was a loser etc n now a year on ive got my confidence back n listen only to the people who love me....x
2006-12-18 05:10:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no,don't work anything out with that dumbazz,he's no good for you. There is no reason for him to be telling you that you're worthless and a piece of crap. You deserve to be treated like a real woman. I know how to treat a woman,come to me sweetie. E-mail me at thatswhack3@yahoo.com
2006-12-18 05:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been here done this... get out now because he is just tryin to destroy your self esteem and when he thinks there is nothing there to destroy he will start beating on you to keep you in tow....
Walk away and never look back unless you want to deal with the pain of waking up and not know where to hold first because your whole body hurts.... and don't say i love him because he doesn't love you doing things like this find another man to many out there to stay with someone who mistreats you....... Good Luck and I hope you do the right thing
2006-12-18 05:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you allow another human being to berate you like that? If he speaks to you like that on a daily basis he will continue to do so, if he's controlling as well its time to move on you deserve better than he can give you. This is verbal abuse and noone deserves that. Get out, of this "LOVE DOESN"T HURT" whether its physically or verbally okay life is to short so enjoy your life it's a gift from God.
2006-12-18 05:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by Priscilla B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lisen to e the best you can do is disapeer for awhile with out seeing him and let him no why you left on a papper so he can no he is doing wrong ,if you stay and allow this crap,he will just keep doing it cause he thinks you like it and aint gonna do nothing about it ..let him see that he is losing you and just MAYBE he will get the picture that ur gone and change his behaiavier!!! try it !!!!
2006-12-18 05:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to submit yourself to his abuse? I would ditch him pretty quickly. Why would someone be so mean if they are supposed to be your best friend, support etc. Would you let your friends treat your so bad? If the answer is no, I would move on. It may be hard for you but you only love once and believe me, there are nice people out there for you.
2006-12-18 05:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should move on....he is a jerk. He does it to beat down your self esteem. Sooner or later, you will break and think that he is right...that you are a worthless looser and must stay with him to have any value. And that is right where he wants you...trapped there with him.
2006-12-18 05:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. you dont want to go out with someone that is mean to you and doesnt treat you right. get out of that relationship before it gets any worse. find someone else that can treat you better
2006-12-18 05:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋