What is up with these ladies going after married men?
If u feel u need to mess up other peoples lives just for some thrill, ur a homewrecker. Whatever the situation is with him and his wife, let them work it out b4 u get in it. Get some self control ladies! If he's willing to cheat on his wife, don't think he won't cheat on you. If u honestly think ur special cause he's coming 2 u for some company, trust me u ain't that special cause all he's getting from u is COMPANY. He going home to his WIFE. Men if u not willing to work on ur marriage, get out b4 u start messing around. Too many stds and things going around 2 to nasty.
2006-12-18 05:04:55 · 16 answers · asked by jambabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I am the one that you are talking about. It isn't so much as women going after the married men ...as the married men saying that they are single/divorced. I have never considered myself a home wrecker and I would never be one. The guy I was dating for 5 months ended up being married. He travels alot for his work and I would see him every weekend. Well one weekend I came across an interesting paper ... a marriage cert. It broke my heart because I actually felt like I had met some one nice, caring and come to find out he was so not available. I thought to myself that I didn't deserve that. I was just looking for someone that I could get along with, laugh with and share things with and instead I found a cheater. So I ask you this why is it that married men can't keep lying and hurting undeserving women? I know that all I want is to be happy and in love...that is what we all want.
P.S. I also called his wife. I didn't deserve to be treated like this and neither did she. I know that I would want to know if I were in her situation.
2006-12-18 05:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by LaReyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife shouldn't have veto power over your social life. One night out every two weeks doesn't sound unreasonable to me, as long as you drink responsibly. You should discuss this with her, and make sure you both understand all the issues. For example, does she feel (correctly or not) that you're not doing your fair share of the housework or parenting? Maybe it would help to work out a more specific arrangement of who does what, or how to take turns with different chores. She may not be giving you full "credit" for chores that you usually do yourself, so be sure to list them in the arrangement (in a non-confrontational way, of course). If you take on a few more chores, you might get quite a dividend of goodwill from her. If you can afford to hire a cleaner for your house, that could ease the burden, even if it's one cleaning every other week. How does she feel about her own life? If she's losing interest in activities she used to enjoy (such as socializing), that's one symptom of depression. Raising a baby can be difficult and stressful, no matter how much you enjoy and love the little one. She should make sure she takes care of herself by exercising, eating right, and getting enough sleep (if possible). She may need more time to herself before she feels ready to socialize. Maybe you can carve out some time for her to do relaxing things while you watch the baby. Many women enjoy professional massages and facials to relax, but she may prefer something else. If she's feeling down, she may not realize how much she needs something like this, so she may need some extra encouragement. She should also be connected to some sort of social network. She may feel isolated, yet not have the energy to go out to a bar. If you think this is the case, maybe you could mention to a few of her friends or family that she'd probably enjoy a phone call or a visit. If she's got the blues and can't shake them, she should see a doctor or counselor to get back on the right track. That goes for you too! Good luck.
2016-05-23 04:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to you, but the men are in the wrong if they are the married ones. Adultery is a married man having sex with a woman other than his wife, or a married woman having sex with a man other than her husband. The guy has to be willing, or women "going after" them would accomplish nothing. This is also true of married women and single guys.
2006-12-18 05:11:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women will always go after married men. And men will always want older women married or not. It seems to be the way things are. Sometimes I think Men were born to Cheat on their wifes & girlfriends.They will never learn it seems.
2006-12-18 05:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by Angell 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no longer many social boundaries to stop them any more. Lying, cheating, betraying vows is now just called "following your heart." And expressing disagreement over the cheating is called "being judgmental." People seem to think that they're entitled to pursue whatever they "feel" at any cost. If a married man looks attractive, women decide he's "the one" and have no morals to stop them because if she calls him her "soul mate" everyone is supposed to "support" her.
2006-12-18 05:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask this question once. I was told that married men don't harrass you, call you all the time, demand anything materialistic, ask alot of questions etc;. All they are after is a little sex on the side and that was what they were looking for as well. No strings or attachment. Both are whores and tramps basically.
2006-12-18 05:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by Wondrin Dude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with you there's no other way to put this, men and woman are running the streets playing tag like their teenagers. When you get married you vow to be better than you were ever and from that day forth you try to do whatever you can to please one another.
2006-12-18 05:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by passion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing that is wrong with these married men cheating on their wives with these women you are talking about.
2006-12-18 05:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AMEN! However, your problem isn't really single women chasing married men, but MARRIED MEN who REFUSE to be faithful. Let's point the finger at the rightful party. Men are pigs because we allow them to be. They must be stopped!
2006-12-18 05:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some woman dont want to worry about getting close and making a relationship work. the only thing some woman want is sex and being with a married man means you dont have to date him and meet his friends and going to parties with him. some woman just dont want what comes with a relationship
2006-12-18 05:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by Bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋