we've been over for about 8 months. We still consider each other best of friends, however I don't want to give her the wrong idea. I just wanted to give her a gift out of friendship. But after reading some posts, it seems as though giving a gift may not be the best solution. Oh and the last time i spoke with her was during Thanksgiving. hmm I'm leaning towards buying a gift and holding onto it incase she gives me one. haha okay any suggestions?
2006-12-18 05:04:44 · 12 answers · asked by barrier method 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes if u still respect her for who she is then yes if she gets mad then its her problem not yours
2006-12-18 05:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by gmfrk91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that you are the one to determine the type of relationship you guys have nowadays. I certainly wouldn't feel comfortable giving a present to an ex in Christmas after breaking-up (8 months ago). I know you guys are still friends, and that's cool. But do you still have feelings for her... or does she still have feelings for you??? If either you or her do have feelings for the other one, then NO gifts whatsoever...It is simply TOO EASY to confuse things around, especially around this time of the year. Too many feelings and emotions going on! Good Luck... Think about it over your pillow!
2006-12-18 05:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by GabyC. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't plan on seeing her that day there is no reason for a gift. If she gives you a gift say thank you and leave it at that (If you truly don't want to give her the wrong idea) A freindly call on Christmas day to say Happy Holidays to her and family should be fine.
2006-12-18 05:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by chai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you should buy her a gift. The fact that you're not sure tells the whole tale, to me anyway. You may create a lot of "weirdness" and that's not too cool. Just say Merry Christmas! Good luck.
2006-12-18 05:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by Shesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have a new girl fr,''NO'' just give her a post card that talks about friendship only and merry christmas ,if you want to give a gift make it very simple and with a card saying i enjoy ur friendship and happy holidays ,so she dont get the wrong intentions you no!!!! and dont always be around and calling her cause she will think ur still interrested or are you ,???? lol
2006-12-18 05:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should buy her a gift if you really want to or see something you think she would really like. You can always let he know by talking to her that it is just a friendly gift.
2006-12-18 05:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are determined to get her a gift, an innocent present would be a gift certificate to a store. I would not get her a restaurant certificate because she might think you want her to invite you as a date.
2006-12-18 05:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way man, don't buy her anything. if she does get you a gift then good! you've got hand in the relationship now. don't seem weak, girls don't like that at all.
2006-12-18 05:07:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends, I think it would be ok....just make sure that she knows it is "just friends" Just say this is a little something for being my friend.......It's better to give than to receive.
2006-12-18 05:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by buckeyefever7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should, too many people think just because you break up you can't be friends. i think it is great you 2 are still friends
2006-12-18 05:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, and quit with the friendship crap. Either you are with someone or you aren't.
2006-12-18 05:08:22 · answer #11 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋