like my ex is moving and the only reason he was staying was because of me but we argued way tooo much
2006-12-18 05:03:24 · 16 answers · asked by Alexs Lil Brat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Uh....if he's your "ex"...haven't you ALREADY chosen between them?
2006-12-18 05:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK Honey, there is a reason he is your ex and he does not have the right to tell you to choose between him or your current boyfriend. You are in a relationship for a reason as well. if there was nothing there for your current boyfriend you wouldn't be dating him. I would tell your ex to get lost, go ahead and move and be on his way with his own life. You are in a relationship now and want to see where it goes. But don't play your current boyfriend, he has feelings too.
2006-12-18 13:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always remember, an ex is an ex for a reason. Why let him even think he can run your life when he is not your current bf? I would say good bye - true friends would never make you choose. Keep the good guy and be happy.
2006-12-18 13:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don think that you should have to choose between someone from the past and some one in your present let ur ex go i mean he is the past so wats the point of leaving ur present for the past!if u guys argued then thas not a good thing and think if u choose ur ex over ur recent one and u guys later brake up then not only would u be left with out ur bf but both of them so i think that u should stay with ur recent bf
2006-12-18 13:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by mrs.garcia16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would remind him why he became your ex in the first place and explain to him that he has been replaced by the now current boyfriend...
if you are still allowing him to influence your decision then maybe you should not have a new boyfriend cause you haven't closed the other door. Close one before you open another!!! how would your boyfriend feel if he knew you were still in keeps with your ex? how would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot and it was a choice between you and his ex-girlfriend?
2006-12-18 13:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I actually thought about it for a minute, that's a hard question to answer, because my Ex has great qualities, but like it's been said many times before, he's my EX for a reason, I would stick with the man you're with now....i mean are you happy?
2006-12-18 13:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already made your choice. You're with a new guy now. The ex is just trying to get control of you or to see how much control he (still) has over you. He might try to lure you into a relationship with him again, just so that he can "win" over your new boyfriend, and then he'll dump you, because you cheated on your new boyfriend with him, so how does he know you won't cheat with someone else?
2006-12-18 13:07:46 · answer #7 · answered by Realmstarr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG he is your ex he shouldn't be making you choose anything.... and if you are thinking about it you never truely loved your b/f now..... I would set down an do some soul searching before I commetied myself to anyone,......
You should stay with your b/f if you love him if you love your ex go with him...... that is as simple as anyone could put it
2006-12-18 13:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is way too easy
why would u even let the x bother u---isn't that why u dumped him in the first place
get rid of the x completely
and keep the b./f
2006-12-18 13:07:12 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be a reason he is an "ex"... that should answer that question
2006-12-18 13:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remind him he's your EX. You already made your choice. Let him go. You don't need him.
2006-12-18 13:24:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋