about cheating...?

Question

1) who is known more for cheating? men or women? and why?

2) how can i show a girl that i'm not the type of guy who cheats, or let me put it this way...girls have this feeling that many men are cheaters, how can i show a girl that don't cheat?

Answer 1

Well, I would say that with 60% of men, and 40% of women cheating, it's clear men have the slight edge.

I think it's not for the reasons people think. I believe there are a significant number of men and women that really are not cut out for monogamy. I know I'm not.

Unfortunately, the societal pressures for monogamy (or monoamory) are intense. I am polyamorous. I have the capacity to love more than one person at the same time. I don't cheat - i.e. I don't break the rules. If I'm interested in someone, my wife gets the meet the person and has the option of vetoing the relationship prior to it becoming highly emotional. My wife has my full permission to date (or more) anyone she wishes. My relationships are long term, or they attempt to be. They are based on love, sex isn't always involved.

I've run into many women that would be fine cheating with me, but cannot handle the idea that my wife would know and approve. It's a sad state of affairs (no pun intended), when social values would value dishonesty without violating accepted norms higher than honesty, but violation of socially accepted norms.

Since you seem to be very much into monogamy, just be open that you are. Always be honest. That's all you can do.

Answer 2

I think that its split 50/50 b/c both men and women cheat.

You need to show her that u are not a cheater by being there for her not looking at other women. Making her feel #1 tender to her every needs and put her 1st and u want have any problems.