Ever since he started to work his attitude towards me has changed. His not the same no more with me. We barely talk on the phone and when we do talk he's mad about something and he leaves me talking to myself. And when I call him when I know he's off work he don't answer the phone and does answer other calls other then mine. Also he never return my calls other just once in a while but other than that nope.
2006-12-18 04:58:57 · 19 answers · asked by gisee. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That doesn't sound too great. Either he has a problems he's not talking to you about or maybe he's thinking it isn't working out anymore. Try getting him to talk to you about it all. Ask him whats going on and if it's still you he wants. Ask him to not put you through it if he really cares about you, to tell you honestly. If he can't do that for you, then maybe you should think about ending it before you get hurt. If he can't talk to you about it and try to fix it, then well he just isn't right for you. As bad as that would be, im sure, you will find someone that will be!
2006-12-18 05:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a number of different reasons this is happening, like I Hate to say it but it could be he's bored. But then theres the possibilty that he may have met a new lady at his new job and doesnt know exactly how to approach the whole breaking up situation so he acts like an ****** so you just end it. If i were you I'd visit him at his new job let the other ladies know he's taken or just end it and gimme a call.
2006-12-18 05:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by the_Boy_that_is_Bacon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 possibilities
1) He's under so much stress at his work, that he attitude changed with everyone around him including you. May be in this case you can provide him with support and stick with him.
2) He thinks that he's superior now that he has a job and is earning more money, in this case, you deserve someone who values you more when he earns money, I would walk away, you deserve to be treated better than that if this is the case.
Good luck
2006-12-18 05:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dana N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's slowly trying to weasle himself out of the relationship by acting like you're a pest. he's probably hoping you get tired of it and just break up with him which would do him the favor of not looking like a jerk. little does he know that it takes more than just ignoring the girl in order for that to happen.
Ask him what's up, more than likely he wants to end it but doesn't know how to. ask him if he wants to end it.
people don't get that moody unless they were on some drug withdrawal so I'd talk to him if I were you and prepare for the worse.
2006-12-18 05:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by puertorock882003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you somthing if he is acting all these ways with you that means you need to stop calling him and call somebody else because obviously he not intrested any more so first ask him is there anyone else then if there no answer than you will have to leave him i know you proably love him but he must don't love you you need someone loyal and someone you can trust and someone who will be there for you so say bye bye to mister wrong and find a mister right
2006-12-18 05:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by jasmine s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it really depends on how long your with him..but he might be doing something behind your back or he is trying to take control..well just deal with it before it gets worst or you get too attached..something like this happens once then its gonna happen again later..hope this was helpful
2006-12-18 05:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be having a tough time at work, or could be he found someone new at work. could be he is just tired, and he doesn't have as much time for you anymore. Every time I changed shifts I lost a g/f, cause they couldn't handle the time change to her attention. and thier schedule
2006-12-18 05:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's only been a few days, he may be preoccupied with something. If it's been longer, I'd bet he's found someone at work he wants to date and he's trying to get you to break up with him.
2006-12-18 05:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is ask him what is going on. Just be prepared for the answer. It seems like to me that he may be straying. Classic signs.
2006-12-18 05:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by LaReyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋