I am in year 12 and i am trying to make someone notice me how do i do it? any ideas. The person i am trying to notice me is in year 11, it would also be good to be noticed by her friends. I want to be noticed in a good way. Preferably before the end of the week, today being monday here.
2006-12-18 04:21:48 · 23 answers · asked by Monu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What u need to do is to talk to her but be casual and limber...don't try too hard and please stay away from the pick up lines, their so not interesting. Besides you can compliment her without being shallow. you can do nice things for her like some suggested but u can also do something nice for someone else in her presence. Nothing too obvious of course. well.. good luck.
2006-12-18 04:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentlemen... Don't act like a show off, girls find that EXTREMELY annoying... if you really want her to notice you, the best, boldest, most touching thing you could do is... no matter if you are nervous or not, walk up to her, tell her that she has caught your eye and much of yor thoughts, tell her you want to know everything you can learn about her, and then ask her if she'd like to go for coffee, or hot choc (its cold here lol) or do something casual, save the "dinner date" for the second time you go out.... it doesn't matter if you turn bright red, or if you fumble over your words because you are nervous, chicks love to see that, it means that we mean so much to you already because you are so scared of messing it up right away... girls love the good guys, honest!! It'll work! It did with me :) and I was with the guy who did this same thing for 9 months, and it was the best and most happiest time I ever spent with someone.... anything is possible! follow what your heart wants!
2006-12-18 12:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I do is;
1. Flowers - They always help don't not for hay fever sufferers.
2. Poetry - Write down a few poems about hope you feel and how she makes you feel.
3. Jewelry - Nothing too over the top but silver is good it will match anything whereas gold can clash.
4. Honesty - Be open with her and make her feel happy and try to cheer her up when she's upset.
That's my advice and I wish you best of luck.
2006-12-18 12:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by elementalguy2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do not put a time limit. Love does not work like that!
Be yourself!
Talk to her, showing interest.
Ask her out!
If you want the element of surprise- try earthlings/angels idea. This being Christmas- leave little tokens in her locker, mailbox, etc.
2006-12-18 12:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try to impress her, thats the most impressive thing. guys are always doing that and they always look like they r trying to hard! just a small jesture for ehr to notice you is fine. pick and a flower and hand it to her and say "thought this might make u smile" and walk away. i guarentee she wont stop thining about u all week
2006-12-18 12:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say basically - BE YOURSELF! Don't look like you're trying to hard to get her to notice you. Show your good qualities and act like your natural self. If you try to act like something you're not, it will show. Be nice to her, her friends, and even YOUR friends. Because if you're nice to her & her friends, then she sees you getting into arguments with your friends or whatever, then it won't look the best & she'll know you've been trying to impress her.
2006-12-18 12:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by mathsmart2_aelita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with girls at this stage of your life. Study hard so you can become a wealthy individual; girls will pour in once you make the big bucks.
2006-12-18 12:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be yourself...not phoney...girls don't like to find out later that the guy they like has been acting all along.
2006-12-18 12:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're good at sports,then,you will be noticed..if you're the shy-type guy,you better do something about it. well, be polite and generous i guess..and if you want to make friends with her, make friends also with her friends..
2006-12-18 12:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by Luisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see whats she is doing. do something with a group of her friends. do nice things for her like opening the door or getting her something to drink. u know nice things...
2006-12-18 12:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by babyblue1512000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋