i got married 2 years ago to a gorgeous bird and she slept about and we split up several times over different lads she was seeing in clubs. i went back to my ex and the wife wanted me back but then things got violent after a few months so i left her to drink and tek drugs while babies in the house. social services ave been informed and now im waitin for a contact order. thers no trust whatsoever
2006-12-18 04:18:45 · 14 answers · asked by ste_leeds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you're on the right track. Fight to get those kids out of there, fight to save your kid. Don't go back, and good luck.
2006-12-18 04:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away and seek legal advice, dont get into any arguments with her, let social services know of the problem was a good move as a caring father your childs well bieing comes first.if you are seeking custody and are not into drink drugs yourself and are not violent,ie. you are responsible and have the backing of your family.your solicitor will assist you if you want to go for custody.untill then you will need to arrange contact through a mediator, social services .because of the age of your baby and feeding,you might need to arrange visits at an access centre.
ps.i am a single father and got parental responsability of my son for much the same reason, hes now 13. good luck.
ps if your baby is in moral danger the police can act and the child will be placed with family (you?)
2006-12-18 04:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by babysox 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have proof by way of a court order that she's into drinking and drugs, then it's your word against hers. Even social services will put a child back into the home of those who are drinking and doing drugs. When you split, you should have been smart enough to take the child the first time you walked. Really, your child should have been your first priority, and the baby is most obviously not yours or your ex's first priority. Go to social services and ask them about getting some sort of visitation and / or custody. But with a kid, it's time for you and your ex to grow up and put the baby ahead of yourselves in the future.
2016-05-23 04:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I'd go to the Citizen's Advice Bureau and find out exactly where I stand and what my rights are. Then at least you can start the ball rolling while you are waiting for the contact order
2006-12-18 04:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was there liquor and drugs in home w/ the baby there? did you see them? if so you should call the police. if the child is yours and you have proof. the police should give you the child then. once you have the child in you custody you can keep them until the judge decides who gets custody. you will need to contact a lawyer. keep a log of everything that happens. cops called, you see drugs or liquor in home w/ child. anything you think might be vital to you case. please keep in mind that the child is the one that will suffer the most if this caries on. that baby is stuck helplessly in the middle of you fight.
2006-12-18 04:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm confused,you drank and took drugs while in the house with babies? and now social services has been called? If im processing that right then good! get your *** in gear and stop that stuff. Your kids come first not your bad habits. If i read that wrong i apologize and suggest legal advice. *smiles*
2006-12-18 04:27:06 · answer #6 · answered by blackrose9902 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your "wife" is a jealous Bit!! she wanted you back because she wans all the "fun" because you went back to your ex she then wanted you back so that she can degrade you more. devourse the good for whats between her legs bit!! and get with some one that really does want a marraige, also your "wife" got married and had a kid so that you would stay. good job in letting S C's know she will learn one day.
2006-12-18 04:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already reported it. Only other thing I can suggest would be to see a good lawyer. You may need to apply for custody of the baby.
2006-12-18 04:22:15 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn`t sound fit to look after a baby at all. seek advice and go for custody of ur baby. i hope ur baby`s ok
2006-12-18 04:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you contacted a solicitor for legal advice.
2006-12-18 04:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋