I like a girl [but don't love] as much as i try to get away from her. My destiny brings me closer to her. But when i am closer to her i don't even see to her [avoid her] [shy] and when she is far from me i always remember her more than myself? WHAT IS THIS SITUATION? PLEASE HELP ME?
2006-12-18 04:17:58 · 20 answers · asked by DJ LOVER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, What the hell do u think that u need to know other then this. This is love, love & only Love.
I had been in the same situation as well around a year back, I would suggest just go for it before its too late. Believe me , if someone else will get her without u even letting her know that u love her, U would not b able to forgive for rest of ur life & the poor girl too.Life is gonna be hell for u.
TAKE MY WORDS & TELL HER WHAT YOU FEEL , SHE CAN NEVER BREAK YOUR HEART IF THERE IS LOVE IN THERE. Best of luck.
2006-12-18 05:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by luckykom83 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have 1) Fear of rejection and 2) Performance Anxiety . Fear of rejection in that you do not know how the girl will react and are afraid to ask. You like the girl so much that you are getting nervous in front of her - anxiety. So have some guts yaar and do not run away from her. If she seems interested the only way to find out is by biting the bullet. So introduce yourself and discuss common interests. See how it goes and take it from there. Unfortunately she cannot read your mind just as you cannot read hers. Broken hearts and romance are all a part of growing up like skinned knees. So good luck and be polite gotta take your chances young man. No risk no gain. Also, remember there are many fishes in the pond. Happy fishing.
2006-12-18 05:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kaliyug Ka Plato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all U have to know is, there are Different Meanings of Love which are According to your Age.. If Ur Below 18 then it will B an Infituation & not Lovee.. If ur Above 18-21 then its an LUST & Not Love.. If Ur Above 21 then It can B Lovee.. But still Ur Not sure Abt it.. So I guess U need to talk to her & Spend a bit time with her.. & If Possible ask her yaar.. U will live ur Life Once.. Try everything.. If not in Front of Anyone then when ur Alone.. Just TRY TRY TRY...
2006-12-18 04:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Reasoner.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is love, so if you have any of these feelings then you are in love.
You will know when you are in love and if you have to ask your not e.g- before you go to bed you can't stop thinking about the person, you dream about them, you think about them as soon as you wake up, you dream about them, you blush when you hear there name, you LOVE to be around them, you cant stand to be away from them, when you see them you have to smile and you can't wipe it up your face, there all you think about. When all you want is him. When you look into his eyes and you know he's the one. When you get butterflies just thinking about him and when you see him. When you see him and your heart goes Awwww. If you feel safe, comfartable and at home when your with him when your not even in your house. You'll just know it, you'll feel so wonderful and calm and you'll just feel in love and they are some other feelings you'll have and some that only you will have, cause everybody has different feelings from eachother than those i menshioned.
2006-12-18 04:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation is love dude, if u can't live without a girl and when you go far from her ...this is love a bonding between tow opposite sexes...
2006-12-18 04:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Nishant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man its the prob same with me i try to avoid her but her cheerful face cant resist and me i have been a nice friend of her now and i dont feel the same as i do like u do man
2006-12-18 05:34:26 · answer #6 · answered by anuraag t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still figuring out how you feel. There may be some attraction but that isn't necessarily love.
2006-12-18 04:20:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..... it could be love! or something is trying to tell u that u are meant to be because u are getting closer!!
2006-12-18 04:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_lyke_kandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do think that you love her because if you didnt than you wouldnt be thinking about her when she is away so good luck buddy
2006-12-18 05:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be love but I am not sure.
You are the one who know the best.
Just take it easy
2006-12-18 04:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋