2006-12-18 04:17:43 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already are good smart and funny!!! If you would like to enhance those qualities, I would suggest: start with a hobby you have and see if you can take a class or join a club to enjoy that hobby with other people. I like to see a lot of movies. Movies are always good conversation starters. Take an art class, writing class, rowing class...something to expand your life. You could meet people at the class or if not, at least you will have something to talk about. Read the newspaper, watch the news.
2006-12-18 04:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by tillcow_64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, many a boring person is already "good and smart." I suppose what you are actually talking about is becoming "funny," but really you probably mean how does a boring person become a more magnetic personality that attracts other people. Would that be right? The best thing you can do is show genuine interest in other people, because everyone loves to talk about himeself or herself. When you are in a crowd, go up to people and ask them questions about themselves and genuinely listen to their answers. Also, try to become well-read or up on current events. This makes it easier for you to take the lead or inject yourself into conversations around you when you know something they are talking about. You are probably not nearly as boring as you fear you are. Just be the kind of person who makes other people feel interesting and attractive and they will naturally want to gravitate towards you.
2006-12-18 12:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a public speaking course and join Toastmasters.
They usually have local chapters in decent sized cities.
They teach you how to speak effectively.
Also for the funny part some cities have comedy houses with amateur nights. Work up some material and practice, practice, practice.
2006-12-18 12:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by aiguyaiguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm ... write down the kind of person you want to attract. If this person is thin and fit and a gym rat then you should most likely become that. If they are smart and well read then I would spend some time in the library.
If you just want to be smarter and funnier and maybe even witty!!! Then READ READ READ!! I can't say it enough READ READ READ ........... READ
2006-12-18 12:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by kungfukiller2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u the person in question? they should reinvent themselves! just wipe ur slate clean, get a new wardrobe, new hair make some new friends and just BECOME that smart funny person. leave that boring person behaind n never look back
2006-12-18 12:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be boring to some but exciting to others. Just be yourself. Have fun with who you already are and people will find you fun.
2006-12-18 12:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with people who are dumber and less funny than you are. They'll be fascinated.
2006-12-18 12:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself if the person you are dealing with thinks you are boring I think it is time to move on
2006-12-18 12:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to read some funny jokes, I.Q. test or riddles and break the ice within your circle of friends..share them what you know and have fun.
2006-12-18 12:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Luisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Boring" is only relative to who you're dealing with. I wouldn't change myself to be something that I really wasn't to fit into someone else's "liking." Do you. Be you.
2006-12-18 12:19:59 · answer #10 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋