I had my ex on the same plan with mine. When we broke up I cancelled it. I then felt bad and reactivated it only to find out that after I reactivated it she was talking to a guy that she never talked to while we were dating. Now all of a sudden she's talking to him. She said they have only talked once but I found out it was more than once. They were having 18-30 min conversations. What should I do?
2006-12-18 04:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by pramon0119 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll tell you what you should do. Grow up and become a man. You are displaying much insecurity in your dealing with your ex.
!) Tell me one good and intelligent reason for keeping her on the plan. You broke up. You are now two complete sets of individual and need your own space to be yourselves,
2) Secondly, your ex is free to talk to whoever she wants to talk to and this should be none of your business. Do not try to dictate her private life to her. May be she was doing you a favour by not talking to the guy. Now he is free, she can act without restriction. Allow her to.
2006-12-18 04:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she paying her portion of the bill or are you paying it because that is very crucial in my answering of this question.
1) If she is paying her part of the bill, you should probably quit being a jerk-off and investigating who she is talking to. That's super f'n creepy.
2) If you're paying the bill, you're still a jerk-off for paying her phone bill. What are you stupid? You broke up tell her to get her own phone or pay her part of the bill. Stop being such a push over, Captain Schmuckity Schmuck.
...and finally.
Dude, you broke up. She's going to talk to dudes, just like you're going to talk to chicks. Unless of course that you've decided not to move on from your break-up, but rather to spend your day at home on Yahoo! Answers and deciphering the phone bill to determine who your EX-girlfriend is talking to and in what intervals she is talking to them.
My final question to you is this...how do you know she's talking to a dude?
There are three possible answers to this...
1) You called the number.
2) You recognize the number and know who it belongs to.
3) You're incredibly psychotic and immediately assume it's another dude that your EX-girlfriend is talking to rather than rolling with the logic that it's nearing the holidays and perhaps she is talking to her great aunt Ruth regarding the Christmas festivities that will be taking place in a week's time.
...if you chose (1)--you're f'n crazy.
...if you chose (2)--you're not as crazy, but should stop looking at the bill because that's weird.
...if you chose (3)--you're still f'n crazy.
2006-12-18 04:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by tkatt00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you had her on the same plan as you and you got the the phone because you wanted to talk to her while you guys were together...You guys are no longer together therefore I say...its your phone your line and you should do whatever you want with it.
It I were you I would cancel it because I am assuming she didnt have one when you started dating, so to make things easier for her you got her a line of her own.
If she is paying for her own line then you shouldnt worry as long as she pays. If you guys already broke up you should worry about who she is talking to.......that is her business and if that really bothers you then cancel it!
2006-12-18 04:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by shygrl52 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-24 18:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your ex-girlfriend you don't need to be paying for her phone bills and you don't need to have access to her phone records. Tell her your sorry but she needs to get her own phone plane and drop her. It's in your best interests.
2006-12-18 04:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Annie Oakley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CUT IT OFF. Let her pay her own cell phone bill. You dont need to be a rocket scientist to figure this one out.
2006-12-18 04:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Vonnie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the mooch off your cell phone plan... If she's using a cell phone, tell her to pay for her own. There's no need for you to be paying for her booty calls.
2006-12-18 04:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a chump! Let him pay for her phone....You shouldn't be footing her bills hence the term EX-girlfriend
2006-12-18 04:17:20 · answer #8 · answered by SALMON 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shut her phone off and dont get jealous cause she is your ex it sounds like in a way that you have her phone on so you know who she is talking to you need to get over her and in order to do that you need to get rid of her phone bill and not worrry about who she is talking to you and find some one for yourself to preoccuppie you time okay
2006-12-18 04:19:04 · answer #9 · answered by angie f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make her get her own cell phone plan or just keep her own your plan but make her pay her part of the bill and if you guys are broken up then who cares who she talks to she is not your girlfriend anymore.
2006-12-18 04:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by crazybayb20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋