My legs are very long and I get insecure about wearing heels because Im afraid That guys wont like it if im taller than them...Please Help!!! My legs have nice shape and I like wearing mini skirts too but im afraid that if I wear heels with them people might call me a slut...
2006-12-18 04:13:58 · 41 answers · asked by ♥ Cassie ♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
or 4" Heels?
2006-12-18 04:16:37 · update #1
Yes, but not for long periods of time, that will wreck your feet physically and cosmetically.
As for mini-skirts and so forth. Your lifestyle has a lot to do with that. genrally mini-skirts are more for going out than work, but that depends on your work. It also depends on how mini it is.
Here's what I think. If you work in a professional environment, and most other jobs, too lose the shoes at work. stay with a longer skirt that covers you in such a way that it is not an uncomfortable struggle for you to avoid showing your private areas.
If you are going out to a club or just out on the town, Wear that mini-mini and those heels. Will some folks think you are a**** or whatever, maybe, but you know what you are really like.
Be aware of these things, sometimes what we wear sends different signals to people than what we intend. Usually after a little conversation though we can let folks know what our boundaries are. I'ts OK to too want to look sexy and feels sexy.
Be Aware that most men will be looking at you though. Probably lustfully, but that doesn't me they would attack you or hound you.
Generally, work no ,clubbin yes
One more point, though. At 5'9" you will be 6'2" in those shoes. No matter how pretty and sexy you look, otherwise, there might be a really nice 5'8" guy at there, who would be a great person to know, that would never come over to talk because of the height.
If you are wanting to meet a guy (you may not be), but if you are, that is something you might want to consider, otherwise, go for it!
Have a good time!
2006-12-18 04:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello Cassie, if you want to wear 5" stilettos, go for it!
I am only 5' 3" tall but I wear 5" stilettos every time hubby and I go out on a date night! He loves to see me in them with a micro mini skirt on. This time of the year I have to wear a long sweater over the outift but I take it off in the restaurant or in the car for him.
It doesn't matter what anyone may say or think! I have the confidence in myself to wear this and not give a .... what anyone may say! People assume that ladies who wear things like this are ..... but that is just what they hear from others. Too many sheep in this country! Anyway, wear them and wear them proud!
2006-12-19 04:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wear 5 foot stilettos....whoa. Sorry for the nitpicking, just a joke. :)
If you wear 5 inch stilettos that will put you in at 6'2. You're very tall already so you don't really need the height advantage. Plus yeah a miniskirt and stilettos will look a bit trashy.
2006-12-18 04:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
You should definetly wear them. People are going to judge you whether you are wearing a mini shirt and stilettos or a sweatshirt and sneakers. As long a you are comfortable with your body then who really cares what others think.
2006-12-18 04:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think heels that tall makes any woman look a little slutty especially with a mini-skirt.
You should wear heels in proportion to the length of the skirt.
2006-12-18 04:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would say 5 inch heels might be alittle much. Unless your attracted to very tall men. I myself am only 5'9 and i dont like it when a girl is alot taller then me. Dont ditch the heels all together but maybe go for something alittle smaller!
2006-12-18 04:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by ambiguous1090 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A girl is never too tall for 5" heels. Go for it! The ones who call you a slut are jealous.
2006-12-18 04:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Did you mean 5" or 5'? With 5" heels you would be my height :D
I don't know about most men, I can only tell you that personally, I don't judge women by their height.
2006-12-18 04:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All is about self-esteem and confidence..... IF the guys doesnt like you bc you're taller ... they are missing it!!! Tall girls are elegant and looks like a model.. im 5'7 and i had that problem too and i started using high hells an beleive me i feel supreme. Dont quit your personality bc of a guy... if you like wearing heels, just do it!
2006-12-18 04:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
go for 3 inch heels. the highest heels i wear are 4 inch. heels. i wouldn't call you a slut. i'm like 5'8 and always have been tall, but luckily there are tall guys in my class.
2006-12-18 04:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋