is it wrong if your boyfriend looks at other girls in front of you?

Answer 1

It depends on how he looks. It is one thing to notice a pretty girl and another to stare.

My wife and I had this discussion. I sometimes notice a pretty girl, but then again she notices nice looking guys and pretty girls.

I told her that it compares to a garden. Just because I plant my own garden, that does not mean that I do not look at anyone else's garden.

It is ok to look, but gawking, staring and touching are out.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 2

It depends on how long you've been with the guy. If it has been 6 months or less he's got wandering eyes, if it's after that mark, guys do it just to keep up with the trends. No, but guys after looking at the same woman for a long period of time, looking at other girls is like taking a small breather, but not cheating. it also depends on your man. If he has a rep for cheating, watch out! if he has never wandered away, than don't worry about it. it's just a healthy way of breathing, comes to the whole phrase, "you can look, just don't touch"

Answer 3

It depends upon the motive of him looking at others. It is not like that he can't look anybody, there might be valid and good reasons behind.

However, if he looks others in front of you in a way that He is looking for another girl, then that's wrong and that's sin. Verify the purpose.

Answer 4

Yeah it's disrespectful. But my boyfriend gawks other women all the time and I just fix his @ss and gawk the men! 2 wrongs don't make a right but I don't let men dog me out because I let them know quick, fast and in a hurry that they may think that they are dogs, but I'm queen B!+ch if need be!

Answer 5

It's disrespectful to you and the other girl. He may or may not know he's doing it.

I suggest next time, ask him what he's looking at (in a nice way). You may say something like "she is kinda cute", or "would you like if I dressed that way?"

Addressing it brings it out in the open and lets him know you see him looking.

Answer 6

It is a natural thing for a guy to look at other girls, as long as he doesn't act on his thoughts. You girls do the same things, you are just better at not making it obvious. Human nature makes one person "check out" an attractive person of the opposite sex. Don't take it personal until there is reason to. Heck, do the same to him and check out other guys.

Answer 7

No he cant have horse blinders on If you have pointed out to him, Well he probably is now aware of you noticing the which wont help because he has to see, just because he looks remember he is with you. men are that way but ignore it or i could be a problem

Answer 8

if he just looks at them, normally not like he "LOOKS oO" at them, its alright, if you don't like it, talk to him about it, and when i say LOOK i mean e.g he stares hard at there *** boobs ect, He looks at them like hes flirting ect. Talk to him about how you feel, and if you don't trust him thats a problem, so talk to him about this issue. If it bothers you Then yea and its normal for you to feel this way. And wouldn't you rather have it in front of you rather than when your not there because anything could happen, but its a little disrespectful.

Answer 9

Obviously, he's a human being, and a GLANCE is hard to control. But if it becomes more than that, an outright stare or ogle, or if he intentionally looks around for women to look at, it is rude and disrespectful to you. and unless this is something you enjoy, you deserve better.
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Answer 10

well....personally I think it is...It shows that he does not respect you...and that he doesn't really cares about you if he feel the necessity of looking after other girls. Do you feel the necessity of looking after other boys?I, for one, don't. When I am with somebody which I love and care about...I simply don't need anybody else.