I don't understand how i can have a gf ever, if i'm shy and i dn't talk and i don't act on nothing. And i don't go out much either.
i'm 27 male. If a keep living my life as now, is there any scenerio you can think of where for some weird reason i would find my self talking to a girl and we would like eachother...?
Maybe bus stop? or something.. but if i don't talk, nobody talks to me, although i would answer and talk if someone else started a conversation with me( i'm not super shy). so i have a feeling, nothing will ever happen.
Places I frequent are not many : just, library, bookstore, supermarket, other stores, walking in the street( and almost nobody else does, most people drive here in CA), and work which is Gardening at the moment and we just go to homes of old age people, there's no possiblity of seeing young girls there.
That's all.
2006-12-18 04:10:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have any friends who know some girls you can meet? If your'e not meeting the girls you want in libraries and supermarkets, you could always try bars or clubs. There are some nice girls at those places...occasionally. That's the easist way I see a guy like you meeting someone. If you're not into that, try a church or some other type of communitty organization. Just stay out of your house! The girls are not coming to you.
2006-12-18 04:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bebe Bluff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ik how ya feel i'm the same way. if i saw a girl working at a store i wanted to talk to, i'll be like "next time i come in" but what happens is the next time i go in there not there. So i go again and there still not there. i think they quit. BUT i have learned that if ya don't take a chance and talk to them, you won't ever get anywhere. If ya see a girl ya like, just ask her if she's like to go out some time. If she says yes, cool. If she sais no, just ask another.
2006-12-18 04:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by rehcueguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is good that you know what is wrong.
you have to try to change , I used to be shy too, so you can change yourself.
you can go and do some volunteer work and start meeting people, you have to talk to them as you are working together.
go to any party that you are invited, be nice and if you do not feel like talking smile.
if you like a girl just smile at her first you do not have to go and start talking or asking her out.
do not push your self hard, and do not act like someone else.
just try to find a way to start a conversation and see how things will work out.
Good luck
2006-12-18 04:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how bout school? why dont you take a night class or something, that way u have to speak up in class, and if you meet a girl, shell most likely have half a brain. other than that, u just gotta do what u can to buildur self confidence and learn how to talk to women. we're not as scray as u may think
2006-12-18 04:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make your mind up not to be shy. It can be done. Throw yourself into situations out of your comfort zone. Take it slow, join a class of some sort where you think you might meet interesting people.
2006-12-18 04:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by gottabuylots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find some ...go to a club or something and just build up the courage to talk to them take it from a fellow shy guy if u don't u will REGRET IT
2006-12-18 04:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jay-C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check the library find a nice bookworm maybe you can make sequels ; )
2006-12-18 04:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Aubrey F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand around quietly staring at her from the third row of the quickie mart. Then follow her home.
2006-12-18 04:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yahoo personals, meet for coffee or something in daylight.
2006-12-18 04:13:46 · answer #9 · answered by Suzanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have any guy friends or family that can set you up on a blind date?
2006-12-18 04:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋