I've been going out with this guy for a year now. We've had some hard times, and we even broke up once. But he wouldn't let me go, and still kept asking if I loved him. I didn't want to be mean, and we ended up getting back together. But now, we're having the same problems, and I don't know what to do. I've been feeling this way for a while. But sometimes, I just get really annoyed with him. He yells at me guy friends, and says I flirt with them, and hates that I want to be able to hang out with other people sometimes. And it drives me crazy!!
But sometimes, he can be such a sweetheart, it makes it soo hard to decide. I know I love him, but I think it's just as a friend. And I know that there are other guys who I think would be worth dating, and are fun to be with. So do I break up with him and tell him to move on, or do I stay with him and tell him how I feel???
2006-12-18 04:08:22 · 12 answers · asked by Hilary M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to be like him. I am a romantic, but I used to be obssessive like that.
What broke me of it is a girlfriend came to me one day and said "I think we need space". Sure it hurt, kinda still does.=, but a boy has to grow up. Soemtimes we must learn through pain.
2006-12-18 04:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it ok to date a guy you might not like anymore?
That's you are going ahead and trying to be perfect, that simply does not work. There is no one perfect. So try to understand that. You future is what you do today, if you love the guy and moreover the guy loves you then continue the relation. Anyway the guy doesn't want to loose you right? So if you set in your heart to go in life with him then that will decide whether you like him or not.
It is just the heart's matter. If you be strong and brave enough to face your life then continue the relationship. If you think you like him till the end then it will happen if not otherwise will happen. Everything is up to us you know, we can do anything we want.
Be open to each other, and share the happiness and sadness in truth and build a strong relationship which will never end.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 12:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up w/him and stop wasting both of youlls time I stayed w/my ex and let him convince me of having a baby I loved him but knw we werent meant to be yet I wanted to see wht it would be like and things didnt work out for the best were both married (to other people) and hes horrible now tht I left him and isnt a very good dad. So I STRONGLY reccomend to leave him, my situation isnt the best so believe me you dont want to end up here!!!
2006-12-18 12:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you may like him, it's time to move on. If you've had problems already and are experiencing that again, that is a pattern. If a person questions their feelings for another person, their mind is already made up. Don't let a guy play guilt trip on you just to keep you around or you will regret it later.
2006-12-18 12:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should so totaly break up w/him. if you don't love him the same way he loves you then it's just not worth staying with. i've had a bf before who told my friend not to han g out w/me any more because i was spending too much time w/him and not my boyfriend!!!i dumped him! i think you should do the same! You deserve to be happy and not stuck w/him if your not happy!
2006-12-18 17:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to let him go because the longer you don't the more attached he will get and the more you will hurt him. Just say something like you don't think you could ever get married to him and that's the type of person your looking for. unless your in highschool which then i would recomend anything you want to do because it doesn't matter anywase.
2006-12-18 12:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by rehcueguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he more than likely feels that you give other poeple more attention than you do to him. its really up to you what you do but are you a bit of a flirt if you are then he is only telling the truth
2006-12-18 12:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are just waiting for something better to come along. If you are just waiting for a better option, you are just hurting him.
If you do not love someone, you should not date them.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-18 12:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him.......cuz\ its not really fair..............on either of you.
tell him how you feel, he'll probably try and comvince u that u will LOVe him again, but stick to what you think is right, and break up i guess, but try and still be friends if he can handle that...........
unless hes rich, then marry him
2006-12-18 12:12:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt that is like going with some one out of pity. it isnt right and you should no better than to do that
2006-12-18 12:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋