How do you pick up women in the South?

Question

I grew up in the North and now I live in the South. I seem to be having a hard time getting a girlfriend, and I'm not sure what the problem is. I'm a muscular guy and I notice women checking me out & I know I'm not Fugly. I admit I'm a bit shy to start a conversation, but once I'm in a conversation I have no problem talking. And I really don't want be like most of the guys in the area who seem to hit on anything with 2 legs and a croch. The funny part is that everytime I head back north to visit family and friends, I have women hit on me all the time. What is the deal?

Answer 1

Southern women tend to be a bit more reserved. They are a bit shy like you. Northern women aren't that way and will hit on you.

Just open up to them and flirt a little. You'll be amazed and love the southern ladies...

Answer 2

It may be that you are not hitting on anything with two legs. I've been in the south for over 15 years and the one thing I've found is that if you are yourself the girls in the south are the same as the ones back home. Most of the time they are even nicer. Get to know a couple and you will have friends you never thought of.

Answer 3

I guess this would all depend on how you act around women in the South. Umm. Most of them I know like the "southern gentleman" but it depends on what part of the south you're in. You could be in the really country part where they like farm boys/guys that hunt. Or you could be in the "southern gentleman" part. Of course these aren't the onlly two kinds of guys girls go for down here. I tend to like the nice guys, not push overs but nice to me. But I have friends who like really country guys. All I can you to do is be yourself and maybe find some people who are interested in the same stuff you like. I guess the big difference down here is preference because people can tell you're not from here or wherever when they meet you.

Answer 4

so start more conversations and quit waiting for the women in the south to make the first move?