My husband had an affair about 10 months ago and now he is always making excuses when we go to bed at night, saying something must be wrong with him like protate cancer, do you think he just does not want to make out with me, or does he have something else on his mind? He says he does not see that woman anymore, he says it was a one night stand.
2006-12-18 03:21:41 · 18 answers · asked by may s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's so ridiculous & bizarre. I'm sorry that you are enduring that sort of treatment. Maybe you could do better in life, think about it.
2006-12-18 03:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to first ask your self how valuable you are. God made you so if he would never hurt you why would you let another human do it the second question is why did he cheat? Did you guy grow apart did material possessions become more important you have to answer that question also. And the biggest one you need to find closer for is the marriage worth saving God hates divorce but he also knows that some times you gotta go. All of us can tell you oh girl hes no good and leave him and so on and so forth but none of us can answer your heart he is yours. If you can forgive do so if you will carry it like a cross don't but others like us wont be with you when your along or when you stay people always want others to say what they want to hear your knees to the floor and your question to God will give you the truest answer if that's what you really want.. Ill pray for you and I hope this answer helps
2006-12-18 03:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by alonda H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, the only way you'll know whether or not he's telling the truth is by asking him. It's not wise to assume one way or the other, as you may assume the wrong thing and/or just make yourself completely crazy. Talk to him. Communicate. This is a very difficult situation he has put you all in. He might be feeling remorse for what he's done, and the guilt could be consuming him to the point that he doesn't feel good having relations with you. That's just one of the many things he could be feeling right now. Like I said, the only way you'll know for sure is to talk it out.
2006-12-18 03:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he thinks he has cancer then he needs to go to a doc. Call and schedule the appointment for him. You should be able to find out if he's lying or not. If he's lying, I can pretty much guarantee that he will confess when before the doc even gets a chance to put the scope in him bum.
2006-12-18 03:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by momofmodi 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is telling the truth about maybe having prostate cancer. He may have something---that he may have caught from the girl and doesn't want you to know about it. Or---maybe the guilt or whatever emotions he feels about the affair affects him where he can't perform with you anymore.
2006-12-18 03:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would haul him to the doctors and try to find out if there is something wrong with him downstairs. If there isnt anything wrong then hes lying. If hes got some kind of STD from her then he needs to have his nuts busted. LOL
2006-12-18 03:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope. What lame excuses too. If it's not her it's someone else. He's hooked on the excitement and it's at your expense. Get a private eye to follow him for proof, then take your half or more and get on with your life. You don't deserve it.
2006-12-18 03:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by none 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, comin from me i would be a little worried. u should tell him well honey u should get urself checked and pretend ur serious and if he goes then maybe ur wrong but if he goes no honey i think im feeling better. u no something is up
2006-12-18 04:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying to you. When wives suspect their husbands of cheating 80% of the time they are right! Dont let him do this to you! Get smart.
2006-12-18 03:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by daisygurl326 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he's lying. Take him to the doctor just to make sure.
2006-12-18 03:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋