My bestfriend(ex girlfriend) and I have grown apart because of another man. It pisses me off to see her so infatuated. This is mostly because the guy is marries and twice her age. I feel like he is manipulating her. What should I do. I want to catch him in the parking garage and pound him senseless. Unfortunately, that would just make her mad at me. HELP!
2006-12-18 03:18:27 · 10 answers · asked by xal0t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately you have to give time just a little time because if something is going on she will soon wanna talk to someone about it so just leave it alone until it surface because it will. Good Luck!
2006-12-18 03:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend has gotten herself in a bad situation, she just doesn't realize it yet. The worst thing you can do is to blow off your friends when you enter a relationship, because it never fails, you need them to be there for you when the relationship is over. This is a hard lesson to learn but one your friend is soon going to experience. If she's seeing an older married man, I guarantee you he is using her for a fling and to give his ego a boost. When it's over, she will come running to you. Wether you are there for her or not will be up to you. If she has been a good freind to you before all this started, then I think you should be there for her and talk to her about the situation and what she should learn from it. Try to talk to her about it now, before it's too late and see if you can make her understand that she's in a dangerous situation that could blow up in her face if the wife finds out. Tell her that you are worried about her and are afraid she's going to get hurt in more ways than one. Let her know how you feel about it and why. All I can say is to get ready to be a soft place for her to fall because she's going to need it.
2006-12-18 03:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're really pissed off because she has found someone new to love. It would be disappointing to see her fall for someone that is married and so much older than her but if you try to get involved your relationship will get worse. She will wake up and realize he isn't right for her eventually. Just let her know you are there for her and don't talk negatively otherwise she won't feel that she can come to you with anything. Being there will show her how much you care and in the end she'll be back.
2006-12-18 03:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by lipton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pounding him is not going to help your situation any, she will have to take her on bumps and bruises, just be there as a friend because she will be back to let you know how she was used by the loser.!!
2006-12-18 03:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could send an anonymous note to the guy's wife. She would definitely appreciate knowing her husband is up to no good.
Not much else you can do without incriminating yourself.
=)
2006-12-18 03:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by vicarious_notion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehhh just talk to her and tell her how much you'lls friendship means 2 you.and tell her since the other guy came in the pic that it seems that she dosnt have time 4 you
2006-12-18 03:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by foxychick142003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is this guy & where can I find him. I'll take care of him for you. However, you'll have to return the favor.
2006-12-18 03:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Brightsides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can only hope that she comes to her senses eventually. tell her that you're there for her,if she ever needs it but you can't sit by and watch this, and hang out with her less. i was "that girl" and my friends got pissed and hung out with me less, and when he treated me bad then i realized who was important to me
2006-12-18 03:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by Lg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hate the playa hate the game, and just make fun of your friend, cause she is dumb
2006-12-18 03:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋