they do not know i like them both what do i do.
2006-12-18 03:16:48 · 27 answers · asked by sugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey
U can't do that , don't make both fall in ur love
u have to choose one guy cus u have one heart and this depended on who is love u more , who is u getting happy with him .
best wishes
2006-12-18 03:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by merg20056 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who would make the best match? Think about 2 years from now. Maybe 5. Who will be successful. Who do you laugh most with. You can't love them both an equal amount. Pursue the one you love most, and the relationship with him will diminish your love for the "other guy".
2006-12-18 11:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by xal0t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not. If you truly think you are in love with two guys then you are in love with neither. Actual love is exclusive and absolute. What you are is in 'lust' with two guys. If you can't decide then the outcome is meaningless. Just pick one at random. If it doesn't work, try the other. Until you find actual real love, you're just passing the time.
2006-12-18 11:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm in that same situation! o m g. You don't have to tell them that you like them. You need to cherish the moments of them not treating as if you were an outcast. Usually, when you admit to liking a guy, he treats you a certain way for a long time.
2006-12-18 11:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If each of them think you are dating them exclusively..then you must make a choice...choose one quickly because if they find out you will be history!
After you have chosen one...you must "confess your sin" to the one that you have chosen...honesty is the only way to have a lasting relationship!!!
Learn from your errors...and in the future...never commit to any one until you know that THIS is the only person that you want to be with!!!
You sound young...and you should remember that it is okay to date more than one person at a time...that is how you get to know what you want in a lasting relationship...and that is how you get to know who is compatible with you...you just don't "lead" a person on and make them think that they are the only one in your life!!!!
Good luck to you!!!!
2006-12-18 11:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by photogram1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being with both is just going to get complicated in the long run. The has to be some attributes in one more than the other that attracts you to either, choose the one that has most of the attributes your looking for and choose. remember what goes around comes around
2006-12-18 11:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats common these days for some reason .. well lets see here which guy listens to you??? and which guy like just wants to have sex all the time??because if i were you id stay with the one that listens because they usally have there life straight ...well who do you feel more comfort for??welll hope i gave you and idea.. wb
2006-12-18 11:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay find out which one likes you more because in that case you will probably have a longer relationship. Also, pick the one that you think is a better person because you always want ur bf to be nice.
2006-12-18 11:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rule about not loving more than one person at a time. The rule says, DON'T COMMIT TO ANY ONE when there is another - that's all...
Have fun, play the field, pick the winner and run with him!
2006-12-18 11:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt you love them both. It sounds harsh, but that reality. Take some times and figure out your feeling toward them.
2006-12-18 11:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by geonautika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋