hi there people i may sound a fool for saying this and you maythink i need to grow up!
but ive been marred for 2 years but been with him for 6 years.. we have had how ups and downs i do love him and i would do anything for him and he would do the same for me.... in the summer last year i see an old friend i havent seen in years and when we last see each other we was going to go out for a drink( on a date) when i see him again it was like i was a young girl again and i liked all what he told me and i liked the way he was with me...... when i was down he made me feel good..... where my hubby dont say good things any more about me.... its plane sex roll over and its done....... i havent sleep with the person i like as i wouldnt do that to my hubby, but i have wanted to and i have kissed him...... my hubby likes to stay home with me and cook me dinner where the other one likes to go out places and likes things that i like doing i.e horses x
what do you think what should i do ?
2006-12-18 03:16:34 · 7 answers · asked by horsestud0800 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me you already did it. Now get the divorce.
2006-12-18 03:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't cheat on your husband. It's just wrong. Secondly, people go through love stages. At points, it's that schoolgirl feeling of butterflies. At others, it's just plain boring and blah. It's up to you to take responsibility for the excitement in your marriage. You just can't wait around and expect your husband to figure everything out.
As for your old friend, you need to nix this immediately. It will only bring you and your husband heartache. Stay away from this guy and focus on restoring the passion in your marriage. There are tons of sites and books to help you do this. It's up to you to take the initiative.
You two fell in love at one time and you can recapture that honeymoon feeling again if you try.
Good luck.
2006-12-18 03:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by 11:11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident! certainly, and right this is the respond: study in finished. It mioght look extreme,. yet you need to try this to keep the marriage and additionally to help along with his psychological issues... He maximum in all possibility, purely as a start up, is having an exceedingly early midlife disaster. He ought to get into an grownup outpatient health center of a wellbeing center with a psych UNIT. H e ought to call first and s tell them he needs to have an entire BATTERY of emotional issues checks, behavioral issues checks and stress issues checks to make certain how his warped techniques is questioning. he will in all possibility choose, from the outcomes, ongoing familiar therapy and probably MEDS. it particularly is fairly strange habit and you need to suitable now p.c.. up, take each and every of the dough you could, and your valuables, and something you introduced into the marriage, and take the youngster on your mothers or a solid relative and shop him at bay.you're no longer being taken care of like he loves you. he's appearing plenty greater advantageous than purely infantile!~!! he's dangling you on a string...he would already be wearing herpes, AIDS or VD. stay remote from him. you need to get his interest: in the present day report for divorce in accordance with infidelity and additionally, in accordance with abandonment. it is going to knock him off his socks. He thinks you will in no way pass away. This marvel desires good be accomplished good start up him on a direction of looking after his yet to be clinically determined psychological issues... and you need to be remote from him for an exceedingly long term so as that he heals if he so choses, as properly as proves his properly worth as a miles better half...If he lands up cheating, it particularly is over... His answer lies in psychological diagnosis in the present day and ongoing therapy and achieveable drugs to administration his loopy moods. purely after an prolonged time will you ever enable him lower back into your existence. he's mentally tousled great time....
2016-10-18 10:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop! what your doing is wrong i know people who have went through the same experiences as you are going through and the turn out is not good if your husband finds out he may well leave you and what will happen if the other man in your life also gets bored you will be left with out any of them
2006-12-18 03:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by pink_n_purfect1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with the marriage first, whether you decide to divorce or not. If you do divorce your husband, after you sign the papers, move on to the next relationship. cheating only hurts everyone involved.
2006-12-18 03:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by wendy_da_goodlil_witch 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no no
you will get in big time trouble if you hang out with this guy...
he knows you are married and he is playing you for a fool... and you will be one if you sleep with him..
He won't be sweet to you cause if you screw around on your husband.. he will not ever trust you to be faithful to him.. so get away from him... and of course he is interesting and fun.... he is trying to get you interested in him...DUH
it is part of the game
2006-12-18 03:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say "American Wife"?
2006-12-18 03:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋