i think my bf likes other men..what should i do!!!!!?

Question

am i in trouble?

Answer 1

Nasty - just think about where his dinky's been. Get another bf.

Answer 2

He could be desperately in the closet, or he could be just a metrosexual.
What is so worrying about this? That you might be going out with a gay guy, or that your boyfriend acts gay? There is a difference.

It is naturally troubling to find out that you are going out with a homosexual. You assume that this person is only using you to appear straight, and while they may love you like a friend, they will never love you the way that you love them.

However, one might equally be offended if her boyfriend acted gay (but wasn't). (I know a few guys like this.) It may just be that you want a man who's more manly, and not so... gay. In other words, metrosexuals are out.

The problem in dealing with this is in how you tell your boyfriend this. On the one hand, he may say, yes, I am gay, thank you for noticing and thank you for accepting me as I really am. I will go have sex with men now. On the other hand, he might say, "you think I'm what?!? Screw you and your little dog too!" However, either way results in the end of a relationship. Perhaps the best thing to do would be to just pretend that he is gay (but don't tell him, just in case you offend his precious male ego), dump him and tell him you just like your guys "more manly" or something. Don't say gay.

Answer 3

You should ask him first of all. If you don't talk about it then you'll never know. I wouldn't speculate until you find out the facts. If you find that he actually does prefer other men then you need to leave the relationship because it will never work and you do not want to go into a deeper relationship where you are not getting back what you put into it.

Answer 4

That's a toughie. I knew a girl who's ex husband was in the closet like that. He never came out but he didn't like himself and was mean as a result. Doasn't mean that your b/f will be that way. I also heard that ppl like that usually go the gay way eventually but again it doesn't mean your b/f will. I am currently going out with a lesbian girl. We're buds and have a great time together. Just being in the same room with her turns me on. It's bittersweet though because I know what she really likes so I have to deal with it.

Answer 5

Get rid of this man immediately.. The fact that u think this about him is clue enough to leave him.. Unless u want a man in Ur life who fancies and sleeps with other men. Girl be-careful and dump his gay ***.. You deserve better.. At least worry about STD. Good luck

Answer 6

If you suspect your are probably right, don't go shopping for a wedding dress anytime soon and you better make sure he is wrapping the package at all time if you know what I mean.

Answer 7

Oh yeah honey, you're in trouble. A few ways to find out............. while the 2 of you are in "the act", try sticking a piece of bedroom furniture up his back side......if he enjoys it then he's a rump-ranger. Another sign is that he has started a gerbil farm !!!!!

Answer 8

Talk to him, he probaly did not want to hurt you, and the fact that he may be gay wont afect his veiw towards you. He may leave for tha guy but just know, he never will mean to hurt you because he is gay.

Answer 9

he may well be bisexual but that is nothing to worry about its perfectly normal for some men to feel attracated to other men or maybe he might feel down and look at other men as if you may like them i know thats what my boyfriend does because he thinks that i like other men

Answer 10

He may be bisexual. If your into threesomes, he'd probably love it!If you'd rather not bring a third party into your bedroom, then try using some toys.

Answer 11

Never too deep to drown in a relationship. swim to the nearest land.