the guy ive liked for over a year has had a girlfriend for quite a while and theyre really close but he USED to be my FRIEND and i miss talking to him she like owns him, tells him what to do all the time. I dont want to get involved, but should i tell him i dont like to be ignored?
2006-12-18 03:13:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my dear sister,
I had a same kind of problem that you have now.I know what is the best thing to do. The thing have done in my case is, i directly told my angel that i love her.Actually i accept that it is not easy such as typing these letters.If you think that you don't have the courage to tell that to him,try it through your best friend.If he/she is a real friend of you he/she wll defenetly help to you.
But first of all, you have to tell him that you don't expect nothing from him and you just want to tell him that you really love him.Then defenetly he will undestand you, and think how good person you are. My dear sister, i can't assure you that he will defenetly start a affair with you. But at least he will become close to you. That's for sure.
2006-12-18 03:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Isuru Madushanka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually you need to grow up. Perhaps you were giving him and his girlfriend uncomfortable vibes since you're admitting you like him. Perhaps this is his way of telling you that he no longer wants to be your friend because he wants his relationship to work with his girlfriend without you interfering. You state he's close to his girlfriend so he has not need to befriend you any longer because as I've said he's probably aware that you have more than just a friendly feeling for him. You need to move on with life without him being a friend to you. Get a man of your own and leave him and his girlfriend alone. You go to him and tell him that you don't like being ignored may back fire in your face. He may say some very nasty things to you as well as his girlfriend. He obviously never saw you as a very good friend or anything if he did he wouldn't be treating you this way. He's made his choice and you're not it, leave it alone.
2006-12-18 11:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, this problem is easi;y fixed. Tell him you are like loved up with him. I know its embarassing but tell him you think he's a great guy and that you want to have him in your life, as a friend or or otherwise, as you used to be good friends. Tell him you miss him. Flatter his ego, if there is omething there on his part then you may have a chance.
Be aware he might be very genuinely hapy with his current girl and not be interested in anything more than friendship at a distance with you.
2006-12-18 11:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no one likes to be ignored, but I would try asking him if you could spend some time together and go out with a group of friends and hang out without the girlfriend. But I also think its hard to spend time with someone once they are dating.
2006-12-18 11:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by R_H_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sound just like what i went though ignore the girl and tire to became friends wit him again but don`t make him chose that wrong
2006-12-18 11:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should be ignored. Let him know that his friendship is important to you. Let him know that since this new girlfriend, you have lost touch with eachother. I feel that you should also reassure him, that you don't want to break up his relationship with your girlfriend, just that you want your friendship back.
2006-12-18 11:20:08 · answer #6 · answered by Angelica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him you don't like being ignored, instead, tell him, you miss you and his visiting and wish it could return to the way it was.
2006-12-18 11:25:14 · answer #7 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel
2006-12-18 11:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by THALIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋