deleting all the numbers on my phone, talking to anybody, not going out ever again, without me phoning him every 5 min just to reassure him that I am where I told him I was going?
2006-12-18 03:05:12 · 15 answers · asked by Immortal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends what you have done to break his trust. Trust must be earnt, if he still wants to be with you then you need to earn his trust again, and this will take time. You need to sit down and ask yourself a few questions: why did you do what you did? Do you really want to be with this guy? And if he forgives you; will you be able to live with the fear that, should he do something equally as bad as whatever you've done, would you also be able to forgive him and move on?
Do not delete your numbers or stop going out, this is no sort of life for you and will only confirm his suspiscions that you're not to be trusted and have somethng to hide.
2006-12-18 03:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by kchick8080 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To trust you AGAIN? So you obviously did something wrong not to be trusted.
You'll never be trusted again, and with good reason, you probably won't change and will just repeat the same mistake(s)
If you want this to work then you will do everything you can to put his mind as ease, even if it is everything you listed. But even after all that for a while, you won't be trusted 100%, was it worth it? and is it worth carrying on?
2006-12-18 03:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by cybermoose1982 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Trust doesn't work that way...and neither does the rest of life. I know that I wouldn't want a girl friend to do that...it would feel like I was holding her prisoner.
If that's what he wants...better move on before he takes away your computer as well.
2006-12-18 03:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to find a new man?
But I don't know the in's and out's of your relationship.
My boyf cheated on me 2years ago, and I still need constant re-assurance now. To be honest I think I will for a very long time.
x
2006-12-18 03:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by Coley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just takes time, gradually the calls and constant reassurance will show how youb feel.
trust takes time, its not instant. be patient...if you were in the wrong its not for you to say when you an be trusted again...
2006-12-18 03:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by ReD eYe ReCoRdS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what did you do for him to mis-trust you...it must have been pretty bad....once trust is broken it's very hard to fix....just try hard and show him that you can be trusted again...it may take time, but it's worth a try..if he cannot trust you again, then it's time to move on
2006-12-18 03:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt ave to justify yourself to no man my lass did same and we ended up getting married and now divorced. it creates problems with trust both ways all you can do is stay faithful to each other and hope it works out.
2006-12-18 04:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by ste_leeds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out as a couple a lot more. The best phrase to use is "if i wanted to be with anyone else why arnt i?"
2006-12-18 03:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely life is too short - time to move on x
2006-12-18 03:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u`ve never cheated on him or given him reason to mistrust u then i`d say give him the boot! nothing u do will change him
2006-12-18 03:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋