Is it really wrong to use a masterbation as a way to satisfy yourself when you're lonely??? if not what works best for a female?
2006-12-18 03:01:38 · 24 answers · asked by Mickey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is actually healthy to masterbate regularly. Masterbation allows you to learn more about your sexual chemistry, arrousal zones, fantasies, and really lets you figure out what turns you on the most.
The more you know about yourself, the more you can help your partner give you the best sex possible.
2006-12-18 03:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation can only be as wrong as your moral upbringing has made it! Physically, it is a normal and a very healthy way of releasing stress, promoting hormonal balance, and allowing you to know your body and sexual functions.
If you have not yet experimented sexually with a partner and feel you are not mature enough or emotionally ready for such a step, masturbation is the perfect alternative. Do it freely and with no remorse for it is only the rigid and very often misguided social and moral conditioning that makes us feel bad about it!
Loneliness is only one of the reasons why you might do it. Experiment doing it when you are not lonely. I have been married for 20 years, have a perfectly normal and healthy sex life with my wife, and I still masturbate. There is nothing shameful or 'bad' about it!
2006-12-18 03:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should use masterbation when there's no one there to satisfy you. Also, you will begin to understand more about yourself and what you enjoy. That will make your future relationships more satisfying too!
2006-12-18 03:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mickey, I think the fundamental problem is what causes your loneliness. If it's because your guy has gone on a trip, then, you can do whatever that pleases you. But let me tell you that masturbation's NOT and can really NOT take the place of a good, hard ccock in a gurl's ppussy - trust me.
2006-12-18 03:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it is perfectly normal. practically everyone does it, but a lot of people are afraid to admit it. society has told us exploration of our own body is wrong, but i believe that it can be a satisfying practice, even when you have a partner
2006-12-18 03:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong but if it make you feel good then do it. I think what you can do instead is maybe got out with your girlfriends to a club. Meet new people and have fun.
2006-12-18 03:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Da Don Donna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. If that is what you need to satisfy yourself, then so be it. We dont need men. We have instruments. Do whatever feels good to you.
2006-12-18 03:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Angelica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would it be wrong? No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating; whether you're in a relationship or not. Have fun; it's your body!
2006-12-18 03:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No masturbation isn't wrong. Its a way for you to get to know your body and to comfort yourself.
2006-12-18 03:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by R_H_P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel good, go ahead and practice this self afflicted pleasure, the alternative is to ride a bicycle.
2006-12-18 03:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋