I cant get him off my mind i miss him so much?
this guy who is my friend he move to my town to go to collage and now he has went home for chirstmas he told me he would be gone for 4 weeks and i thought it would be ok but now i cant stop thinking about him i miss him so much!but we are just friends i didnt even know how much i liked him in till he left! got any words of wisdom? does it matter that he's 19 and in 16
2006-12-18 02:41:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get drunk works for me, and sleep around
2006-12-18 02:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you have no business being so attached to a 19 year old. Sorry, but that gap is a little too much for me. Second, grow up a little. There must be something more too your life then liking this guy. If not, there should be. Don't let missing him ruin your holiday. You will regret it if you do.
2006-12-18 02:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is 19 and i am only 16 so that doesn't matter. i have been in the same situation before. and part of the reason you are feeling this way now is because you cant have him. and in your head that makes u want him more because it will be a challenge. long distance stuff rarely works out. you should really think about if you like him, or just the idea of him. good luck.
2006-12-18 02:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Katiie Babiie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love him more than 'just a friend'??...and thats ok. Me and my b/f were gr8 friends at first. I think it makes 4 a much better relationship if it goes that way. Somehow???@#?... i would suggest not 2 over do but, let him know when he gets back.....he just may b having the same feelings as u!?!...until then keep yrself busy and remember that he IS coming back in a few weeks. Merry Xmas and Goodluck!
2006-12-18 02:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ReeLsWeeeT♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Age makes no difference, but take it from your experienced peers. Don't get too hung up on one guy. Loves come and go. Even when you think it's right, it might not be.
Your feelings can overwhelm you. Shine them off for a few weeks and don't let what's right in front of you go to waste.
2006-12-18 02:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can’t stop thinking about my girlfriend! We are really busy right now and I don’t get to see her that much. The best thing is just to talk to him each night and during the day be busy and have lost of stuff to do. Look forward to when you guys get to be together : )
2006-12-18 02:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow puppy love which is normal. but you have alot more to do with your future so concentrate on that. but it's okay to miss someone or even think you love him. it's normal chemistry. who knows, might be soulmates since you mention you are friends. the best love relationships always seem to start out as friends.(smile) and b4 you let him know your feelings make sure he feels the same way to or you will be crushed.
2006-12-18 02:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you let him know how you feel about him but if you can help it, I'll prefer you hold on till he returns and you see him face-to-face. However, I don't see age difference as any problem at all. Cheers and have a nice day.
2006-12-18 02:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, how do you know that he is thinking about you too.... you might be lossing your time... since you are friends, and you are missing him more than friends...
just go out with friends and get distracted until he comes and then you can tell him that you love him and missed him a lot and be happy forever....
2006-12-18 02:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your just friends then i would suggest maybe letting him know slowly that you have deeper feelings for him. you don't want to scare him off. try calling him. just to say hi, see how hes doing. or if you have an email address same thing. if you do talk to him say little things like i miss you hurry back, you will be saying the truth but not overdoing it! GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-18 02:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
age is nothing but a number so have no worries.you can't help who you like and/or love.you never know what you got until it is gone so do da damn thang and tell him how much you like him.sure theres a chance y'all will get together and breakup which could mess up your friendship but you could fall in love and progress into love
2006-12-18 02:50:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋