If i talk to him about why he is treating me badly and prove that he is mentally unstable to the court on record can I use that and help my custody/child support visitation case if it goes that far to court. When he talks to me and not around his girl, he is not rude and doesn't try to make me out to be crazy. He tells me she is the crazy one and that his situation is bad and does not our son or me around it. But when he is around her, he talks real nasty to me and acts like I did something wrong when he is the felon and addict and he aslo said he is bi-polar. He wrote me a letter nearly 2 years ago when he was locked up and told me a shrink diagnosed him as bi-polar and that he was prescribed prozac and lithium. He is not on it now. I also want to know if I can use any letters he wrote as evidence to prove he's lying. He wrote and said lots of times that he wanted a relationship and yesterday he denied that. He is a liar and I have it in writing that he is . Will it help?
2006-12-18 02:40:08 · 12 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To sunshine - You are real ignorant. If all the people in the worls knew everything about a person's past and mental health before they got in a relationship with them, we would not have a human race anymore. I'm sure your parents are sorry they had you cuz I'm sorry they did. Moron!
2006-12-18 02:51:21 · update #1
in the 2 states that we live in the law is that if at least one party knows the conversation is being taped it is legal. But I decided not to do it anyway cuz my equipment i bought won't work and another recorder I tried won't work so I have to take that as a sign and not do it.
2006-12-19 00:27:28 · update #2
You need to talk to your lawyer about that..
2006-12-18 02:43:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I wouldn't let someone talk nasty to me and I don't care who's around if he tried it. I'd get in his face and would not back off and that person he was with better keep quiet and stay out of it or they'd be next. Then I'd take all his crazy *** letters to court and let the jusge see them. I wouldn't tape conversations with him but he'd know I'm not even playing around with this when it comes to my kids.
2006-12-18 10:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the tape will be allowed in court. I know the u.k won't allow it. I think the letters can be used as evidence. See if you can get him to write again or get a friend to listen to a conversation. They can act as a witness
2006-12-18 10:45:19 · answer #3 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letter most likely not.
Audio recordings possibly the laws vary state to state, but usually as long as 1 person in the conversation knows about the recording it is perfectly legal. and that 1 person can be you.
Check with your atty they know your state specific laws.
2006-12-18 10:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by hurricanemercedes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Recording someone against their knowledge isn´t against the law. Playing it to the public is. That means it won´t do you any good in court. But it depends on the country you´re in. You could still playback to your friends, and they can kick his a**.
What you can do, is file a complaint to the police and if the complaints keep piling up the social worker, psychiatrist, police,... will come talk to him. If he really is a psycho people will come to realize.
REPORT TO POLICE ANY MISBEHAVIOUR!!!
2006-12-18 10:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Matic Zadnik 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most states recording a conversation without consent is against the law. Strangely enough in many states you can record on videotape provided there is no sound or voices in the recording.
2006-12-18 10:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can try just in case, but if you do, prove his identity be making him say something about himself that would definetely be known to be him. I dont know if you can use that in court though, you'd have to talk it over with a lawyer.
2006-12-18 10:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Déjà Vu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, what you can do is call a lawyer several of them better yet call the court and inquire if this will stand up. also i hope you dont plan on getting with him.
2006-12-18 10:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by sexy c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Letters can be used in court. However, you cannot use taped messages of someone in court without letting them know first, that they are being taped. In fact, it is actually illegal to tape a conversation without letting that person know you are doing so.
2006-12-18 10:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by tobcol 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
This seems like entrapment to me. I strongly urge you to discuss this with your attorney before you carry this task out.
2006-12-18 10:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋