ok my mom knew i smoke, but my dad didnt, he just turned arnd n asked me since when i started smoking (aggresively) it was so uncomfortable .. :( i dunno if he is gonna ask me again, but it was so terrible .. what shall i do ? i mean im 19. i guess its no1s business.. is it ? what should i do ? :(
2006-12-18 02:36:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont know how he found out ! he is a smoker so NOOOO WAAAY he would found out !!
2006-12-18 02:37:03 · update #1
Well, now he knows...it's out in the open so just act normal and be yourself. You are 19 so you are of legal age and your Dad is a smoker, too so he can't really say alot about it. He probably is worried because obviosly smoking isn't good for any of us, and he may feel some responsibility for you having picked up the habit from him. Don't worry about it. He's watching his little girl grow up and that's what's on his mind I would think. Next time you're together sit down and have a talk and a cigarette together. That will break the ice.
2006-12-18 04:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. While I don't think smoking is in anyway good for you, you are 19 and have some freedom. However if you are still living with him, he might have some house rules that you need to follow. Being truthful could be one of those rules. It was your choice to smoke and you have to face the consequences of that choice.
2006-12-18 10:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by Merrily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just tell him, or ignore it. my bf has been smoking since he was 13, he's now 24, and over thanksgiving his mom and mine started talking about his smoking, and how she's known about it for a while but never said anything (but i doubt she knows its been that long). we just kinda laughed and changed the subject. it hasnt been brought up since.
2006-12-18 10:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth i mean you're 19 what can he do
2006-12-18 10:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Zack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋