Its morning and she cries softly went she wakes. today i went in her room and she screams at me sasying she doesnt want me. So I left her in there. Well I have been back in there three times and she gets mad at me and screams no mama. Never have I heard her say this in the morning. she went to bed fine last night. what to do? why could she be mad at me?
2006-12-18 02:15:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I know how you feel! Ever since I brought my baby home from the hospital, my other five kids are mad at me when they wake up and even in the day. I think for the most part it's dreams, actually I KNOW it's dreams because my oldest told me about one of his.
I don't about your daughter, but my kids are grumpier than hell in the morning.
I have just gotten them up one at a time to avoid fights, carried them to the living room and spent a moment telling each one of them how very much I love them. They seem to be fine after that.
I think just ask her why "no mama" and cuddle her, tell her how much she means to you and if she had a dream get it clear in her mind that dreams wont hurt her.
Good luck, I know 1 is hard to deal with, try having six! I am sure she is just grumpy and needs your love!
2006-12-18 04:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by baby oh's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have had a bad dream and you were in it...)Dont worry that doesnt mean you have done anything wrong to her,thats just like when we have a bad or crazy dream about someone) OR she may have been just a little tired and cranky and didnt want to get up this morning so she knew when you were in the room it meant she had to wake up. Even though it makes you feel bad b/c you are mommy It is nothing you did. Little people have their own personality and they can be moody sometimes too! Don/t Worry Mom!
2006-12-18 11:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the person that suggested tired. If my son doesn't get enough sleep, he cries in the morning when it's time for school. When he goes to bed bright and early he's an angel in the morning. Your daughter could have had a bad nights sleep. If this continues try to talk with her to see whats wrong.
2006-12-18 10:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by bucsandducks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not mention how old your daughter is. Maybe around 2? My guess is she is just testing out some independence and isn't mad at you at all. Don't take it personally. If she is not ready to get up, then just calmly and simply tell her that when she is ready to get up, then she can call you and you'll come and get her. After she gets up, just go about your normal morning routine. Don't make a big deal out of her unusual behavior. It may just be a one time thing.
2006-12-18 10:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son does the same with me sometimes. I think it's either because they have a bad dream, or haven't woken up yet, or still tired. Give her a few minutes on her own to fully wake and then try to entice her to get out of bed with favorite toy, or breakfast food, or tv program etc. She's not mad at you - just not happy with getting out of bed.
2006-12-18 10:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have had a bad dream with you in it, and that might be why. She also might just be testing you for some reason. I know that my sisters kids have done this to her more than once. If there is someone else in your home like the dad or siblings maybe try letting them get her, if not then just give her some time and she will probably get over it.
2006-12-18 10:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by Vegas mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go in there and just hug her. Ask her why she dont want mama! It sounds like she may have had a bad dream. Just hug her and rock her. Once you do that she will know your there for her even when she dont want you! Good luck!
2006-12-18 10:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have had a really bad dream. since she is still small she may not recognize it as a dream. As to give you advice on what to do, I have no idea. Good Luck.
2006-12-18 10:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by Tasha 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she may not want to wake up. if she is in school she may not like the school. talk 2 her about it. check out her school, see if she is doing other odd behavior
2006-12-18 12:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would just go in and give her some juice and a big mommy hug.
2006-12-18 10:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋