I have had some crazy ones lately! I had a dream that the florist dropped off the flowers at my house the day before the wedding (and I mean just the flowers, not arranged or anything) and told me her son was sick and I would have to do my own flowers. I had a nightmare that my Aunt who is doing my hair for the wedding (she is a stylist for a living...been cutting my hair forever) didn't show up and I had to do my own hair....and more of the sort... I know its just wedding stress, Im not to worried, but I wake up and I'm like ok whats up with me!? So, to all you brides out there-are you having crazy nightmares? If so tell me about them, lets laugh at how crazy we are becoming! :)
2006-12-18 02:09:18 · 10 answers · asked by ASH 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My wedding isn't until June 21, 2008 and already I've dreamt:
1. My hairstyle is HORRID
2. My makeup makes me look whoreish.
3. People get lost coming to the event hall.
4. EVERYONE RSVP's with a "no"
5. Half RSVP "no" and show up anyway.
6. Most RSVP "yes" and don't show and don't bother calling.
7. Our car gets stolen the day of the wedding.
8. A hurricane washes out the location of the event hall the day before to the day after the wedding date.
9. People interpret "comfortable beach wear" to be thongs and speedos (planning on a beach wedding). I really don't want to see our relatives in thongs and speedos!
So many little flashes of nightmares. That's the ones I remember!
2006-12-19 02:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh yes! I don't know why this is...I've had weirdo wedding dreams all my life and in all of them stuff goes horribly wrong. And it's not like i'm nervous or don't want to get married either. I think it's just a normal thing that we brides go through. I've had some REALLY funny ones. I had one this week actually. I have about 4 months until my wedding (April 21) but in my dream the wedding was this week and i hadn't gotten anything done except for what i've really gotten done now 4 months before. So in my dream the wedding was that day and i hadn't gotten the menu worked out with my catorer or my dress fitted and lots of other stuff and i was freaking OUT! Just enjoy the laughs and don't take the dreams literally! (I hope all of these dreams don't make me parinoid on the actual day though. I don't want to be nervous or stress about the little stuff)
2006-12-18 02:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Katie Beth 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes,its hilarious, I keep dreaming that my wedding is the next day and nothing is ready and my dress doesn't fit. Or that I woke up late and had no time to get ready so I end up getting married in jeans(which is beyond silly, given that my wedding is at 5pm). I've also dreamed different variations of the following: that the store changed my dress and instead of white it is gold with an awful black sash around the middle, or that my mom showed the dress to my boyfriend and I was enraged.
It's good to know that I'm not the only one going nuts.
2006-12-18 09:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by marij 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So far, i only had one crazy dream. I dreamed that five minutes before the ceremony was to begin, the groom was not at the alter.He was late and I had to stand at the altar and watch him walk down the aisle. I woke up and laughed so hard! Lately, I do not dsream as much as I am so tired from planning a wedding and working at the same time.
Say a prayer for us brides. We need it.
2006-12-18 04:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think this is pretty normal,I know when my sister got married 6mths ago,Like two weeks before the wedding she didn't sleep much at all she would wake up yelling at everyone at the wedding,There is a lot of pressure on the bride and she does all the work for the wedding while the soon to be husband sits back and waits for his bachelor party.So I would suggest to you to try and clear your mind before bed,I know that is hard to do,Maybe take a relaxing bath and if you like herbal tea drink a warm glass before bed,or a glass of wine,It might help.
2006-12-18 03:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by wastedddayzandwastednites 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
YES! We just bought a house and are fixing it up... we want to have most of the work done before we are married. I keep having these horrible dreams that after we are married, he sells the house and we move to this horrible places. One was a flat in Japan and it was in a really bad neighborhood and then another one was a gaint haunted house... and then another one was a run down hotel!! I am from Philly- so the Japan one is a real stretch!! I guess it just our minds trying to resolve the stress in our sleep!!
2006-12-18 02:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're not the only one! I've been having those dreams since I got engaged last year. They always center around the dress....it doesn't fit,,,,it's horribly ugly...the store closes and I can't get the dress...and a million variations there of. It's becoming more frequent now actually, since I still haven't picked a dress and I'm getting married in July! It's just all of our "keeping it calm and cool" exteriors letting our true "oh my God I'm getting MARRIED!!" neurosis coming out to play in our dreams
2006-12-19 14:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by MelB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is punctiliously prevalent! I had the same element taking position to me at the same time as i replaced into planning my wedding ceremony. Like yet another post reported you basically have a lot of pressure. i replaced into dreamming that I under no circumstances booked my hair appointment so my hair replaced right into a mess on my wedding ceremony day..forgot my differences so my gown replaced into too lengthy and that i had to pull it down the aisle. I even kept having desires that my fiance replaced into dishonest on me. It replaced into undesirable dream after undesirable dream. do not difficulty although this all thoroughly prevalent. basically attempt to loosen up somewhat extra--which i understand is less difficult reported than performed. Congrats on the marriage!
2016-11-30 22:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by matis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have any nightmares before my wedding, but my friends had plenty of them for me! Of course they didn't tell me about them until after the wedding so I wouldn't freak out. :)
2006-12-18 03:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
O yeah, don't worrie, you make crazy dream because you are so happy.
Enjoy everything and don't worrie about dream, live them alone
2006-12-18 02:17:57 · answer #10 · answered by napoli 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋