Here's the deal. Actually, it's much like the movie, "Alfie".
I date a lot. And it seems like no matter who the girl is, no matter how lovely and wonderful she is, I find myself losing interest in her, getting interested in others.
The more I get to know most people, the more flaws that are revealed when you get just close enough to see them, the less interested I become, and I feel almost trapped. I move on to the next thing, work on it... to whatever distance it goes. And it happens again.
Is there a cure for this? A way around it? Have I just met the wrong girls over and over and over again? Is this something that's wrong with me that I'm just going to have to live with?
2006-12-18 02:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh, I know my flaws pretty well. I recognize the fact that I'm far from perfect. And this is one of my biggest flaws.
2006-12-18 02:12:13 · update #1
See... thats the thing. I do try to get to know them. I do make the effort to see them for more than sex. Heck, lately I'm losing interest in girls before I even get them in bed... which feels like a lot of work for absolutely nothing.
2006-12-18 02:15:53 · update #2
Nah. You're just looking for someone who is good enough for you. You have very high standards. And you should. You're an amazing person...and you're looking for an amazing love...don't settle for anything less.
*kiss*
2006-12-18 02:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No one is destined to be alone. You just havnt found the right girl yet. When you meet her you'll know. Oh she'll have flaws dont get me wrong; just like the rest of us.You'll see these flaws but they'll just make her even more perfect in your eyes. Thats what love is. Recognising all of a persons flaws and still loving them completely.
2006-12-18 10:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. It seems like when you are with them for awhile the same old thing gets boring unless they are the one that is "not into you anymore". I'm very jealous of those people who have found their "soul-mate". I'm not so sure mine even exists - or if they do, they are with someone else. Sometimes a cure would be to spicen things up like toys, meeting in a bar and act like strangers, hell get out the whips and handcuffs! Lol!
But I think that it is very important that you find someone that you have alot in common with and then it tends to get less boring.
2006-12-18 10:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
there is something inside of you that you need to work on. because it seems that running from girl to girl has got you tired. Have you ever thought of getting to know someone? when you meet a girl and sleep with her, its obvious that you would get bored because the chase doesnt exist. when you take a girl out next time why dont you talk about politics or current events, get different ideas and opinions going and you might want to keep them around.
also it maybe that you are attracted to shallow girls who only care for their cleavage and make up
2006-12-18 10:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you've identified your issue. All these women you're meeting are just not your type. Move on, and eventually find that diamond in the rough.
Good Luck.
2006-12-18 10:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you haven't met the right girl yet or you have not given the potential ones a real chance
2006-12-18 10:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The question is do you think you should be alone because if you can't live your life alone how would you live it with someone else
2006-12-18 10:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by princessfromthe804 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u need to continue dating and maybe while ur on ur dating train you'll find the right one
2006-12-18 10:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by CHEER HEAD =) 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dunno Dude.....
Is 'being permanently with someone' something you want?
Is the idea of having kids even a remote possibility?
Ask yourself this question seriously............
How old do you want to be when your son is 18?
2006-12-18 10:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by wolf560 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same here :D
2006-12-18 10:13:31 · answer #10 · answered by S@D L@Dy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋