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im so sorry to say but i cant seem to put a finger on it... Men are so confusing... Firts they tell you to get out, and then they dont want you to leave?

they say they love you but then they act like they dont know what they gonna do... and they say one thing and act like they didnt say it and blame you for taking it that way.

they hump on you but cant have your back.. but make sure you see them do it for other people!

]tell you how good other women look, but never compliment their girls/wives/etc.

MEN ARGUE ALL THE TIME!!! I MEAN ABOUT THINGS THAT YOU CANT CHANGE, BUT THEY ALWAYS YELL ANS SAY WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS ADDING UP AND YOUR STUPID, FAT, UGLY ETC..

i mean what is the deal? why so negative, why so mean. i cant seem to figure out if a man dosent want you and your in his house then why compalin instead if kicking her out...

2006-12-18 02:01:22 · 2 answers · asked by gaurdianangelic 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Men are, in a sense, like dogs. That is to say, men and women are different Dogs are not like us, but we still love them anyway. Why? Because we accept that they are dogs and love them for being dogs. We do not expect them to answer when we talk, we expect them to be mad when we beat them, we do not expect them to clean up their own poop, as long as they bark when they want out. Why can't we treat men the same way?
Men are not like us women! We cannot expect them to behave like us, nor understand us. There wil probably always be some miscommunications with them.
However, men (especially straight men) are mcuh better than women. Whatever you say about ulterior motives, or not meaning what you say, it's 100 times worse for women! If only because, when you second guess a man's meaning, it might be that you're reading too much into it, but when you second guess a woman's meaning, you're not only right, but havn't spent enough time thinking about it yet! (I speak from experience.)

A good book to read is "Self Made Man" by Norah Vincent. She's a lesbian who dresses up as a man and "infiltrates" their society. Men and women function under different rules and different expectations, and this book is a great discussion of it.

However, no man has a right to call any woman "fat" or "ugly" unless it's only in jest and you can tell him he has a small penis. If your man is saying these things, or you are constantly being treated that way by men, maybe you need to change your friends, your lifestyle and possibly your outlook. Maybe you're very threatening to men, and they react the only way they know how.

2006-12-18 02:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by newinfiniteabyss 3 · 0 0

That's sexist I don't do that

2006-12-18 04:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by ET Dude 3 · 0 0

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