If I appear like I have a huge crush on him and really like to give up anything for him, he wouldn't treasure me. So how to get him interested? Should I seem as not so interested in him?
2006-12-18 01:58:05 · 7 answers · asked by anne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends if your styles are compatible. If you are a goth and he is a prep, you won't mix... But if you are both down to earth, you have a chance. Look shy around him, and smile at his feet. Don't say hi, or wink, or do anything slutty. That's how I like girls to act when they like me. They look cuter that way.
Dress nice too. I'm not talking mini skirts and spaghetti straps... Nice tight sweater, tight jeans... Do not show cleavage... Again nothing slutty. Do not look like a whore, PLEASE.
2006-12-18 02:04:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up and say "Hi".... it usually starts there.
If you are nervous, try asking others about him.
He might already be involved or interested in another girl.
Don't let that stop you however.
The more you "give up to get him" the harder it is to "get it back when you stop".... few things are forever, those things that you treasure are usually not worth giving up right off the bat.
2006-12-18 10:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by wolf560 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy i find sometimes guys like their space. if a girl is too interested in him that might scare him away. if you take it slow just day by day it maybe a good move in your position. anywho If you have not asked him for his feelings that would be the first thing i would do.
me personally i like when a girl is "over interested" in me. It makes me feel loved. I enjoy my time too tho.
I love your post by the way
2006-12-18 10:11:08 · answer #3 · answered by timmay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are using on a man what only works on women. That said, don't seem clingy or desperate.
Just be yourself, be cool, have fun. If it happens it happens. Love is a pretty uncontrollable thing.
2006-12-18 10:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a little bit of something special. If you have a good feature make the most of it. Men notice those things.
2006-12-18 10:02:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply give him good sex and he gon be running after you like a cork on heat!!
2006-12-18 10:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not playing games like you described above... that may help.
2006-12-18 10:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by jwb674 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋