my boyfriend said that he loves me and is falling in love with me well i really really like him but im trying not to fall in love with him because he is in the army and very soon might be going overseas and i am a very soft hearted person and already had my heart broken before and i dont want it to happen again when he go overseas because i dont think i can handle it what should i do
2006-12-18 01:49:53 · 9 answers · asked by just anotha chick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we broke up before and when we got back together we agreed to not get too serious
2006-12-18 02:06:54 · update #1
Well i think you should stay with him because he might be the right guy for you because some boys cheat on they girlfriends because some girls don't like to be with a nice guy they want to be with the ones who is going to cheat on them i think you need to stay with him.
2006-12-18 01:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by lil boosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help falling in love, sorry but you can't stop it. The only way you could is to break it off now. I would stick with it, because those guys do need something to look forward to coming home to. You can't live life scared of getting heart broken, it gets you no where. Life sucks when you're scared all of the time.
2006-12-18 09:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not ready for commitment at this time. When he gets out of the service and if you are both still interested, resume the relationship at that time.
2006-12-18 09:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are wanting us to say that it is ok not to feel anything for this guy??? Then why are you spending time with him???
2006-12-18 09:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-18 09:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join him in lugguges
2006-12-18 09:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by yan l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm....I would say false.
wait, I think true....
2006-12-18 09:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by besthusbandever 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do wat yo heart says if it says love him then go ahead. life is all adout pain and happy ness so do wat u got 2 do
2006-12-18 09:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by tk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and the question is...?
2006-12-18 09:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋