What should I do if my ex-boyfriend that I still have a thing for, tells me that he still loves me?

Question

Say that I'm dating this boy named Nathan right now. We have been dating 2 months, but about two weeks ago I found out that my ex still cares about me and I kinda never got over him but I don't know what to do. I'm afraid that he just wants me back because I'm happy now....

Answer 1

well if u really want him back then i guess u can try one more time.but u have to remember the reason u broke up with him.don't make the same mistakes again.good luck girl ;)

Answer 2

now that u are with Nathan, your ex sees you are happy, it is a man thing to want to compete, and win the prize. he is an ex for a reason, don't look backward, because the same problems you and he had will still be there. it is some kind of ego thing going on, and when he gets u back, and taken u from Nathan, and won, he will than become disinterested in u, and want to move on to the next conquest.

Answer 3

Yeah... you're right, he might just wanna get back with you because you're happy. Don't dump Nathan, if you see that Nathan don't want you any more or he's cheating, then you dump him. THen if your ex still wants you, just give it a try. But while you are with Nathan, make your ex jealous!!! I think that's pretty fun! I do it all the time!!! Good luck tho....

Answer 4

first you never dated someone else til you areover your ex that makes things worse he could be saying that because you have someone else and not him and it wouldnt be right to break up with the new guy because then you broke his heart and there has to be a reason your ex is your ex and your not suppose go back your suppose to move forward and you dia that so stay where you are and if your still kinda has love for you you wouldnt be his ex it takes time to get over alover you had but yuo got with someone one else so that showed you did care enough to wait to see if you and your ex would get back together you got with the new guy and you need to talk to the new guy so he can know how your heart really feels.

Answer 5

Thats exactly how he wants you bak the same happend to me but i did not even go there your ex cant c you happy with someone else hes your ex and should stay the ex it never worked the first time whos to say it will work a second stay with the guy your with now or if you really have feeling for your ex follow your heart goodluck and merrychristmas xx

Answer 6

he's probably your ex for a good reason. if you have a good thing going now, keep it going. A lot of times when people break up, they tend to only remember the good times. They seem to do a 'memory dump' of all the bad times that caused them to split up in the first place.

One sure fire way to decide what to do is to follow your gut. Whatever your instincts tell you to do, go for it. It'll probably be the best decision.

Answer 7

think about why you broke up and if it was like a stupid reason i say you go back to your ex boyfriend it might work this time and if nathan really loves you he would understand.

Answer 8

hey, follow your instincts and what your heart tells you, if you are happy with the guy your with, then don't let anyone ruin it, and if you still feel for your ex, then don't lead on your current boyfriend, and let it go and give ur ex another try. but think wisely, life is short, enjoy it. .

Answer 9

first of all i'ld like you to be extremly carefully in this steps;
try to understand who loves, cares, and makes you happy the best among the two of them, if your ex-boyfriend is the one, then test the two of them again to see who will not leave you for worst, if he still pass! give him another chance.

Answer 10

If he is "ex" is for a reason.
If you are happy with your current bf, just keep him and forget your ex.
Enjoy the present and plan your future.
Good luck!