I met a good friend at work about a year ago we had FWB relationship but found out she was sleeping with a few other men. One of them was unavailable and had a girlfriend but I told him she was sleeping around. She cut off contact with me.
Two months later I contacted her by e-mail and phone to say I'm sorry and ask if we could be friends, I have never and would ever threaten her or call her names as I care for her too much. Now she has reported me to anti-social behaviour team for harrassment.
2006-12-18 01:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I contacted her three times by e-mail and once by phone
2006-12-18 01:12:42 · update #1
Drama Queen who has lots of Friends With Benefits.
When you started saying things about her behind her back you lost your Friend and your Benefits.
Obviously you cannot handle sharing her with others!
So find one you don't have to share.
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2006-12-18 01:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You created the drama by sticking your nose into her business where it is was not warranted for your own personal benefit and now you are just reaping what you have sown.
If you had ultruistic motives you would have told the fellas girlfriend that HE was cheating on HER; by telling the boyfriend it is an obvious manipulation to try to control her life so that she will only be a FWB with just you by chasing away the competition, which is obviously not what she wants and that is why she has cut off contact with you and did not respond to your e-mails or phone call.
You just need to leave her alone and think twice before getting involved with any FWB relationship and don't ever get involved with one with a co-worker.
2006-12-18 12:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it was not just a FWB relationship for you or I don't think you would have told one of the other men that she was sleeping around. You have apologized for your behavior and since she has not accepted your apology I would just move on with my life. Good Luck!
2006-12-18 01:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is furious with you and rightfully so... You need to back off and go away and NEVER contact her again. She is using all the resources at her command to punish you - so just leave her alone.
BTW I think there is far more to this story than what you have posted.
2006-12-18 01:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am female & seriously...she is being a nasty bit#@!!! She is taking u 4 a ride and using you...Loose her immediately!!!...pleeeassse.... 4 yr own sake. Im sure she wont be yr first and last... as u sound like a decent honest guy and real gurls need more of u..
2006-12-18 01:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by ♥wattha♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You called her a slut to a coworker and then kept trying to talk to her are you stupid. Leave the poor girl alone
2006-12-18 01:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by space case 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how many times did u contact her and what did you say?
2006-12-18 01:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by buggs8498 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋