I come home early from work one night and i opened the door and walk into my bedroom only to find my boyfriend and my dad "breaking in" our new bed. Now they did not hear me because they were to loud. so i went to my girlfriends house and cried.
2006-12-18 01:00:07 · 34 answers · asked by girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur bf and ur dad holy **** that is ****** up i say just dump him but i would cry too if my gf and my mom were doing that, id probably vomit a lil bit but then i would cry wow i am soo soo sorry for u that has got to be a tramatizing experience god dam im sorry
2006-12-18 01:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tiffany be strong! This may hurt you for a while not because it was your Dumba** boyfriend, but in fact it was your Dad. Why couldn't they be upfront about the ordeal. You know a lot of guys are on the DL these days and in live different lives outside their wives and girlfriends. Leaving us open to STD's and HIV! Go get tested Tiff if you had sex with this a**hole. God only knows how long he has been back dooring it. Its going to hurt girlfriend, look at it this way, it was 2yrs not 6 yrs and you are married and then you find out.
Good Luck!
2006-12-18 01:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sucks.
First, get an HIV/AIDS test
Second, get rid of your boyfriend
Third, get rid of that bed
Fourth, confront your dad and tell him how much he hurt you.
Chances are that it isn't the first time your boyfriend and your dad have gotten it on. If he's been your bf for 2 years, then there is a chance that he's been secretly seeing your dad for 2 years. Also, there no telling how many others he's been with.
As much as this is hurting you, my advice would be to cut this guy and all ties with him and start from scratch.
2006-12-18 01:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! There's really nothing you can do about it except talk to him and ask why didn't he tell you so you can hopefully get some closure and go on. Talk about double jeopardy I'm sorry you experience that kind of heartbreak when he could have told you the truth. I hope he truly has some answers for why he didn't tell you so you can move on and be able to understand why he did this. And your father isn't looking too good at this point either and he really owes you an explanation. Good Luck!
2006-12-18 01:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else AND sit down with your dad. He needs to talk with someone NOW! You do not deserve to be treated this way by either one of them. DEFINITELY get your "boyfriend" out of the picture! This is a bad time to be alone, but better alone than with HIM! Get with a few friends and family members this CHristmas and set up a movie nite. I would include some snacks and maybe an all-nite card game. Make it fun!!
Eds
2006-12-18 01:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is explain to him that you are not interested in continuing a relationship. Ask him if he is bisexual or if he was just using you to spend time with your dad. It is possible that you were his cover.
I would also speak to dear old dad and remind him that this was, as far as you knew, your boyfriend. I would tell him that you need him to be honest with you and that he hurt you. If he meets a guy and wants to have a relationship with him that is his business, but he should tell you his intentions with your boyfriends.
Take care,
Troy
2006-12-18 01:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?! Even if I saw this on a TV soap opera, I would think it too bizarre to be real! Not only is your BF gay and your dad gay, but your BF likes old dudes! It's a lose, lose, lose situation.
Seriously, I would move out and have nothing to do with either of them again!
2006-12-18 01:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many relationships are breaking up bcs of this situation. There is nothing you can do. If he is gay, he is gay. You can't change him. Talk to him about what you saw and explain to him that it really upset you. I would ask myself if he is bi than just gay. But doing "it" on your bed with your dad????????? Please just tell him it's not working out bcs of what you saw and just get out of the relationship and find someone that will love you only.
2006-12-18 01:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is: get some professional help. Talk to a psychologist. This is a very serious matter. Your bf part is easy: just dump him. But the dad part is very complicated.
Don't make any move before you have talk to someone about it.
2006-12-18 01:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Marcos Canada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would SOB! That is very weird and unusual when not in a Soap Opera. Maybe Break it off with him,and talk with your dad when you are ready. But in your case I dont think ANYONE HERE CAN GIVE YOU THE BEST ADVICE!
...So sorry.
2006-12-18 01:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋