oaky me and my ex were together for 5 yrs and then brokeup ,,,, well last christmas i went to visit him at his moms house and we got back together, it only lasted for a month and then he made a lame excuse that we couldnt be together anymore because he didnt want a long distance relationship but thats so lame because hes in the millitary anyways ,, well i guess he met this girl that he claims to be so mature she lives in vegas and hes in ridgecrest ca well one night he text me saying that he still has feelings for me and he was single and that he wasnt with his girlfriend anymore, well a few min after that his girlfriend calls my phone saying you stupid ***** qiut calling him and he doesnt want you he wants me and he said that hess gonna marry me and get me and wants me to be the mother of his kids well i said tell your man to stop calling me so to make it short hes says hes getting married to her so should i stop talking to him even though i love him so much?? well sorry its so long.
2006-12-18 00:53:10 · 16 answers · asked by italianprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let him play with your self esteem. I know another girl who went through the same thing. This guy will be back pretending to be single again and you will be waiting right? Don't let him play you for a fool and sometime being with someone for five years is nothing, when you start marrying people that is when you realize that you should married him because you really did not know the real him.
Pick yourself off ground zero, see a good therapist, get over him. Just watch this guy is also playing this girl.
2006-12-18 00:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah!! You should. It's obvious to me that his playing games with you big time. Don't put yourself through that. You deserve more. Delete his number so you have no way of contacting him at those moments for weaknesses we sometimes have. I know this is hard b/c all of this is still so new for you, but you have to take yourself out of the situation, and move on. Don't you want to be in a drama free relationship where the person feels the same for you as do for them. Be patience. Date have fun. You only have one life. This is it.......
2006-12-18 01:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a total waste of time...dump him..I know it is hard if you still love him. In the long run it will be better.
He does not know what he wants...I have a feeling being in the military is not great for relationships...If they see action they become different people trying to deal with what they have experienced in the field. It is not going to work with him and this other girl either. I bet he told her you were calling him.
2006-12-18 01:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, well first off obviously he is not respecting you because of his lack of maturity in deciding whether yes or no, and i believe that everyone deserves to be happy and obviously he isn;t making you happy, but instead stressing you out, even though you love him very much, you have to love yourself more and know whats best.. in my opinion, let it go and move on at your own pace, life is to short to waste it on someone who doesn't know what they want and seems to be playing games. eventually you will find someone who will make things worth while for you. yes, there are a lot of men out there, but believe me i know how you feel, when you love someone, really love them, you put up with their stuff cause its something you just can't help, love is a powerful feeling, but remember, above all and everything, love yourself more than any man. God Bless.
2006-12-18 01:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by latina ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would just move on and not talk to him anymore or even answer the text and let him play games with some one else you sound like a nice person and dont need that kind of childesh games in your life those are the games that ruin use nice people. dont let him ruin you for the nicee man that dont want to play any games with you okay
2006-12-18 01:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you love a lying idiot like that? Ask yourself if you really need that headache. I bet other guys will start to look a whole lot better. Move on, leave him and that tramp alone.
2006-12-18 01:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up on him! 5 years together he is prolly still coping with not being with you. it sounds like he is using you for when he gets the chance to be with you to "be" with you but doesnt want anything long. just tell him "look we werer together for 5 years and im not playing mind games, its over its been over, if u want to be with me then u be with me and only me im not in to on/off sh!t and not wasting my time on a guy who isnt gonna spend his time with me" just let him know that, and if he chooses to be with you then tell him next time he "breaks up " with you its final and forever and let him know that if he doesnt you will never forget the time you shared but your not wasting your life on one guy, theres plenty of fish in the sea and the sooner you realize that the easier it will be! good luck!!!!
2006-12-18 00:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you have feelings for this guy....but he sounds like he needs to be put in the past.....you can do much better.....let her have her prize and do better for yourself
2006-12-18 01:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go, you dont deserve a cheap piece of sh*t like him!
Your love is to precious to be wasted by him..
He is using you as a thread to his girlfriend!
2006-12-18 01:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by nevins manafe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes obviously confused so i say stop talking to hima nd move on
2006-12-18 00:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋