who i work with who constantly prefers to email me rather than just get up and talk to me. this has been going on for about 2 years.
i sent him page earlier this morning and he didn't respond. and i was finally able to work out the problem on my own.
i have passed him several times today...and yet...while we are sitting in the same office, only 20 feet from each other, rather than getting up and coming over to me, he emails me and asks if i paged him earlier.
i have asked him before to talk to me in person if he is right there, but he still never does. he says he is shy and has told me he likes me (thru email). it's been 2 years already!! how frickin shy can a person be??? frankly, he's annoying me!
he has told me he thinks we should date (via email...*sigh*). but i don't have a laptop! LOL! anyway...
so i get another email... "i'll take that as a 'no' " (about the page)
i have been ignoring him because i am so fed up. am i being rude?
2006-12-18 00:32:26 · 12 answers · asked by soren 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am almost certain that the reason he finds it difficult to talk to you is because he has been having sexual fantasies about you.
It is hard to talk to someone with a straight face or mind when the night before he was fantasising about taking you on top of your desk.
It is a very awkward situation.
2006-12-18 01:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I concur with abluebobcat - he has constructed an affair of sorts in his head and he has developed strategies to control the way it goes between you - emails rather than face-to-face. I think i would just grab him at the office party and turn his fantasies into reality. Then change your email address.
2006-12-18 01:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email him and tell him if he can't have a normal converstion with you than he needs to leave you alone while at work. . .You are being paid for your work quality, I am sure this is effecting the output at work.
2006-12-18 00:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer Lu22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone that he is harrassing you. He sounds like a sick pup if he gets off from email.
2006-12-18 00:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be shy so you ask him out for a drink or 2 that may loose en him up then he may start him talking to you. then you ask him whats up dude. see whats up with that. if that don't work tell him to buzz off
2006-12-18 00:40:14 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with it....don't fight it...or ignore him...your choice...or when he does that, call him back on the phone....see what he does with that....make it a game instead of getting annoyed and fed up...life is too short to get worked up over such little things...
2006-12-18 00:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is shy, then there's stupid shy.
Two years is enough and if he can't talk to you then how does he ever expect to date you?
Tell him to just leave it and move on.
2006-12-18 01:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by NM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you shouldnt have even waited this long, just go up to him and talk to him. Dont rely on him to come up to you.
2006-12-18 00:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Luke B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's an idea stop using the damn computer and go and confront him
HAPPY DAYS
2006-12-18 00:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the funniest situation i have read about in a long, long, time. lmao.
2006-12-18 01:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋