Hi,
I have a problem, which is a global issue for many in terms of making that first move with girls. What do you say to a girl or how do you approach a girl when it is obvious that they seem to be interested in you.
The story, went out to a bar, on entering the door saw a very pretty girl who kept looking at me. I returned the look, it was kinda nice, and even after moving along I knew she was still looking.
I went out of the club to make a call and there she was outside with her friends - think she wanted to follow and when I went back in , she came back in as well and the looking continued.
I wanted to go up to her and talk to her, but I don't know what to say. Why are girls , the pretty ones always surrounded by guys or girls. Oh by the way I'm a girl who likes other women and this was a gay club.
What do you say ? Do you just walk up to her with her buddies there ? Do you keep looking at her smiling ? This happens to me alot - don't know what to do.
2006-12-18 00:28:40 · 6 answers · asked by Piampri 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just go introduce yourself. If you to click the conversation should flow easily.
2006-12-18 00:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start with "Hi, I'm so-and-so, I don't think I've seen you here before.
To be honest a club or bar is the hardest place to meet people unless you have an extremely thick skin. You will almost always have an audience, hardly no one goes alone.
It is the same for heterosexuals trying to meet people in clubs. The women are looking for the Brad Pitt's and the guys are looking for the Pamela Anderson's, not the guy/girl next door.
2006-12-18 00:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by e.sillery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bold , ask if she would like to have an affair cause there is no way something as fine could be roaming alone. If she laughs or smiles drop an intro and let the conversation flow. If u receive an unfair response for u efforts, least u did not waste time !At least she won't forget u
Bold eh?
2006-12-18 00:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by The One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what your looking for. Here's what worked for me. When I was in college there was this guy that I was attracted to. He was sooo gorgeous. Everyday I would stare at him from a distance. After weeks of trying to get him to notice I was like forget this. I just went up to him and asked him did he have a girlfriend and if he wanted to maybe hang out sometimes. He said yes and we are still together today. That was 10 yrs ago.
2006-12-18 00:46:03 · answer #4 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile than call her and invite som,ewhere as far as possible
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2006-12-18 00:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by dana brown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to be ur friend first...
2006-12-18 00:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋