Why am I having a run of bad health?

Question

I split up with my husband of 13 years in February and since then seem to go from one illness to another........breast lump (undergoing monthly tests), blood clot in my leg (undergoing treatment still), stomach ulcers, losing weight. I am over him, truly, and I know that in my heart I am a good mother, friend and person so why is so much s**t coming my way.

Answer 1

That is the biggest question to anyone that gets ill. Why me?
You are most likely under alot of stress and you bodies system is worn down.. You need to start doing for yourself for a while.. to get your health back to normal.. and don't let anyone stress you out anymore.
I know that is hard to do..
Think about this and smile.
You said your break up was after 13 years. was it also on a Friday..
I even tried getting married on a Friday the 13th to break my bad luck in everything .. well it didn't work.. so that is why i said to smile about this.. You need to have something to smile about.
Just make sure that you are drinking plenty of fluids and eatting right and you health issues will turn around..
Find someone to fall in love with like the other person said.. Love has a way of curing all things..
as for your ulcers and losing weight that is from stress .
Try to think positively about the other stuff and you will feel yourself getting better..
get plenty of rest to relax yourself.. I wish you all the luck you deserve for the holidays.. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family..

Answer 2

It could be you have an underlying condition that is causing other things to happen more easily than the average person. The stress of your current situation can trigger problems.

Have your doctor test you for low blood sugar (hypoglycemia) with a 5 hour fasting blood glucose test and also get a fasting blood insulin test. If you have unbalanced blood sugars (a pre-diabetic condition), then that can cause other chemicals in the body to imbalance, including things that let blood clot faster. Stomach ulcers can be an unrelated condition - but imbalanced sugars don't help it heal any faster.

Another condition that really like imbalanced bodies is yeast overgrowth. There is some basic info on this as well as low blood sugar at www.hufa.org. The good news is that these are treatable by eating (the proper foods at the proper times in the proper amounts).

Answer 3

Have you read the book, "Bad Things Happen to Good People"?
You have been through a lot. I'm so sorry. My answer is not an answer. It's a suggestion.Begin reading and applying some positive thinking. Go to www.WMOP.com or www.DailyWord.org, or www.PositiveChristianity.org or any like that. Begin changing your thinking. Your habitual thinking. You have influence over the outer events in your life by taking control over the inner events. Not really complicated and not denominational. One of those "Simple but not easy" jobs. My best to you.

Answer 4

You have been going through alot of stressful things lately and that takes a toll on your body. Make sure you take extra care of yourself right now. Get plenty of sleep, eat healthy foods and maybe add in some vitamins. Go for walks and take the time to pray. Pray while you are walking. It's a good stress reliever.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I know what you mean. It doesn't just rain, it pours. For some reason out of the blue you'll have a really bad run of luck that goes on forever. I'd say it goes away, but then I'd be jynxing myself... I think perhaps the first illness and the shock of your divorce has knocked your body all to hell and your immune system is weak.

Answer 7

stress and emotional pain can cause ill health.
u do seem 2 have had a huge battering health-wise.
aim 4 the new year and look 4ward 2 a better life,
u r a good mother, friend and above all a good person.
good luck with ur on-going treatment.
stay strong and i send u cyber-hugs.
:)

Answer 8

ok relax the thign is your auto imune system is down,due to reoccuring stress and cortisol levels
and once it is down youll get one thing after another
try to eat a healhty balacned diet with a good mulit vit and also some fish oil ,gentle exercise,also try a hobby and make new mates
dont worry i lost my job,got car reppoed,went bankrupt,lost my girl friend and my flat all in one week
now im happy and with my prefect parnter and after xmas moving in a 6 bed home woohoo
its like rain mate it passes,and may returen but you need to find some sun in between

maybe the hobby you shud undertake shud be somehting to give confidence
good luck

Answer 9

well if you are over weaght then having stomache problems are somthing that will stick with you...my advice is too, get out walk around goto the hospital get blood thining medecine change your diet to high fibers, stay away from sodium, pork sausage large amounts of cheese bbq sauces, ketchup, tomatoes...dont blame poor health on your husband, if u practice good health and good eating u will see a difference in ur life over time....

Answer 10

You have obviously been under a lot of stress recently. Try to find time for yourself. All the very best