Guys pls help - how can a guy be so warm on the phone with you and yet be so cold and sort of ignore you when you see each other, what's up with that, I don't understand as I like him very much???
2006-12-18 00:10:32 · 9 answers · asked by Angelface 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is being an A S S.
2006-12-18 00:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem. It's like whenever we're on the phone or texting, it feels so nice and casual right? Like it keeps flowing. But when we meet, it's like he sorta ignores you. It may be cuz his guy friends are there, and he doesnt' want them to tease him about you two..
I just wish we could solve this together. I hope my advice was some help.
2006-12-18 00:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Jayden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are just strange sometimes and some men feel more comfortable talking to a girl over the phone thatn face to face but talk to him about it and find out where he's coming from. Good luck on getting you a good man
2006-12-18 00:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he's embarrassed to be seen with you in public. No offense. It possibly could be HIS insecurities...it's not you. Maybe he doesn't want to be seen with a girl at all. Either way, talk to him about him. Let him know you're confused by his behavior. Be careful not to sound too confrontational or accusatory. It'll just turn him off. If he still ignores you after your talk, lose him. You deserve someone who'll give you his FULL attention ANYTIME.
2006-12-18 00:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion i think that when you are talking over the phone, we might say allot of things depending on what are goal is in this relationship, or how to make it one, or just a lay....we hide behind out communication devices, cause it hides our real emotion, the eye contacting verbal, and physical emotion that you can not see over the phone, so yes some of us are shy, but some of us will also go to the extreme in telling you what u want to hear, just to reach that particular goal we have in mind...i would just ride it out and see where it goes, and if your dumb and fall for all that blah blah, then well i dunno...maybe you fell for it, or maybe it was sincere...
2006-12-18 00:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by stickyn1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he have an image problem ? if he's among a lot of his mates when he sees you is that when he shuns you ?
if that indeed is the case , then be rid of him , he has an ego problem and will never commit to you in life now or in the future .
there are plenty of other fish in the ocean . good luck .
2006-12-18 00:18:08 · answer #6 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO!
Guys are some time shy. They think if everyone knew that he liked you they would tease him. It just like when a guy likes a girl he will pick on her. Girls just don't understand this.
2006-12-18 00:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's called love dear. it's happened can't be described. u tell him in straightway &then keep patience.good luck!
2006-12-18 00:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb he shy??i oso gt tis problem...><
2006-12-18 00:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by bishan_ite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋