2006-12-18 00:07:44 · 15 answers · asked by Bluerocker 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Bullying is a big issue in schools these days. Most of the time bullies are bullying others as a resort to their own insecurities. They need that power that they may not get in other places. It could be due to the fact that the child's parents don't give them the attention they need, or another problem at home. It is important for you to not resort to violence. This bully could need a friend, hich I know you may not want to be. But here is the thing, I am a firm believer that I can not control what others say and do to me, but I do have a choice in how I react to those people. My reaction is usually to love those people who do me wrong in order to show them that life is not worth battling against one another. We need to spend our time building relationships not tearing them down. Good luck, and if you do need more help let me know
2006-12-18 04:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by Katelyn Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullies get their strength and power from those people who merely watch the activity and do nothing to stop it.( they are thankful it isn't them) .Do you have a circle of friends who will step up and say Stop it, . A bully will seldom do anything if someone has the courage to get involved. They are cowards in most one on one situations. Perhaps your school could have an assembly on bullying and teach strategies on how to handle it. Your school should also have a zero tolerance policy on bullying.Tell your parents and they can help you through this.You must get the courage to stand up for yourself( this doesn't necessarily mean a fist fight) or this bullying will never stop until a new victim is found.I would have your parents set up a meeting with the principal to address this matter. The bully is probably known to the principal and your parents should ask what is going to be done to correct this situation. Bullying is not kids being kids and NO ONE should be a VICTIM to a THUG.
2006-12-18 04:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi mate, sorry to hear about this problem. People just don't understand how it can ruin your life, when you have someone bullying you like that.
Best advise is to avoid them as much as possible, also try to stick with your friends, so you are not caught on your own.
This may be hard, but try to speak with a Teacher that you like, or your Form Teacher. This IS a problem that needs to be dealt with, you will need help.
You are not stupid or sad, if you ask someone to help. These bullies need to be dealt with. And you dont deserve this treatment at all!
If you prefer to get back at this bully. Find an older friend, or a member of your family (an older brother for example), and ask them to wait for you at the end of school.
Then when you meet them, go and find this bully, and get them to have a good word with him, to threaten him, scare him (like he was doing to you)!
He will think twice about trying to bully you after that.
All the best mate, this has to stop NOW !!!
2006-12-18 00:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by GuessWho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a child I was bullied a lot. I suggest that for one thing stick up for yourself. If that doesn't help then tell a teacher or the principal of your school. That should stop it. A lot of schools have anti-bully policies. Your's should too. I hope this helps.
2006-12-18 08:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ever you do don't resort to violence. For one, it's not right (two wrong's don;t make a right =p). For two (does that make sense?), you'll get beat up. Sorry, but it's true. People always say that bullies cn back up the talk with the walk or hwatever, but usually they can. Here's what you need to do.
1. Stick with friends so you're not caught alone. If you don't have friends, it's time to get social.
2. Talk to an adult. Don't be embarresed, it doesn;t make you a wimp.
3. Don't let any trash talk get to you. They're not worth it.
2006-12-18 03:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by bwiz19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a wuss and take your ground. You need to stand up for yourself. Don't let a bully put you down because if you do, they'll continue to bully. Shw them who's the boss and they'll stop.
2006-12-18 05:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bullies pick on those who they think will let them get away with it. The only real way to stop them is to stand up to them and let them know that messing with YOU is not a good idea. I've done it. It works!
2006-12-18 00:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my son was being bullied at school, I told him the next time they pick at him to look them in the eye and cuss them out.
So the next day the kids started asking him for his lunch money and he turned around with a mean look on his face and looked the kids in the eyes and yelled "Get the f**k off me before I kick your a**" . It worked but he was called into the office for cussing. The kids never messed with him again and my son has not cussed like that again.
2006-12-18 00:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok here this should help!!!
1st step: Find a big fat friend and be nice to them.
2nd. step: Get them to not like the bully.
3rd. step: Get your friend to beat the sh** out of them.
4th. step: Fall on the ground and yell that big bully dude beat me up HELP HELP!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 00:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by onlyoneangel01 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
STAND UP 4 URSELF and visit my anti-bullying site (its my profile name)
2006-12-19 09:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋