Some people have said when they buy their first house or when become a father for the first time others have said never.... I'm starting to think never!
What do you think?
2006-12-18 00:03:35 · 52 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol... I think never.......
A 3 year old boy was having a bath.... he started playing with his 'boy bits' and asked his mum...... " mummy is this my brain?" "No" she replied..... "Not yet". lol
My apologies to all men..... we love u all... cant live with u and cant live without u lol.
Have a good day. x
2006-12-18 00:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Cubangirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Generally maturity, in both men and women takes place due to a large range of factors, hormones, environment and personal experiences each play a significant part.
In men, puberty takes place at a later age, and persists till their late teens. For obvious reasons the rapidly changing hormones in their bodies does cause a number of mental and emotional changes in their make up. And it doesn't quite stablise till later on in life.
However, there have been cases where people, both men and women, when placed under circumstances of extreme stress or pressure, will mature at a rapid rate. Force a person out of their comfort zone, and give them the choice of adapting and maturing, or losing out and crashing. What usually will happen, is that that individual will grow and learn at an accelerated pace, though some emotional scarring and trauma may result, depending on the kind of pressure involved.
However, pressure, stress does have its own drawbacks, not all individuals are able to cope with the stress, and they do suffer as a result, and fall into bad habits, and thought patterns.
So maturity really is a mixed bag, it comes about through hormones, experiences and environment, but at the same time it can also subvert that very thing, and trap a person in a childish mindset that protects the individual, but at the same time pushes people away.
2006-12-18 00:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Dai S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men have different levels of maturity at different times, for me I feel like I've been through it all, Be married for 35 years now , I didn't think he would ever really grow up , three children and 2 houses later, still acted like a free, immature person. He did take care of us financially. But the family as a whole need the whole man.. To be there through thick and thin.. After 17 years or so I thought he was finally growing up, he changed quite a bit , But that didn't last for long .. Now I guess I can blame it on something else Mid-Life Crisis, or so I've been told . Whatever it is, it's sure tough on the family, My grown children have such a problem with it and now they have their own children ( Our Precious Grandchildren ) We all are hoping he changes but , he is the only one that can do as, so we just take him a day at a time and go on living our lives,, we do deserve that.. If you are struggling with a problem like this I wish you the best.. It's a very hard situation to be in. But I in for the long haul.. On the other hand , the door has never been locked, He could hit the road anytime he wanted to ,, and At this stage of the game that would be ok too !! Best Wishes to you and Merry Christmas
2006-12-18 00:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same "milestone" as when women mature. In other words, everyone is different and generalising others will only reinforce YOUR beliefs about men and the world.
Your experiences with men is of your own creation.
I've only met a couple of men whose maturity didn't quite match their age and even THAT is relative to MY expectations.
We create our realities then attempt to blame others because our lives aren't working out or the things WE create don't fit into the fantastic image.
Sorry, I suspect you wanted another dreary "slag 'em off" response but it wouldn't be the truth.
2006-12-18 00:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is different for every one i have been told in high school that i act like a 40 year old man but i just think i act in a way an adult would react to situations ... i know that some people never matter and still act like a child at the age of 60 .. although that is very rare
2006-12-18 01:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Michael D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men never growup, others do far too soon. The best mix is those grow up enough to take responsiblity for themselves and the people they love, and still keep that boyish fun side.
2006-12-18 00:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by selchiequeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be True Never!!! But pracitcal answer is when they face difficulties and problems that make life harder..which eventually build their character..Take a son of Millionaire..who does not
know value of money and just knows how to chill in Life...
He need not be necessarily a mature guy if he really does
not try learn things himself.
2006-12-18 00:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anand Kulkarni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don,t think they ever really do my ex had mid life crisis at 39 he lost everything because of it then thought he could get it all back same as before
partner just now 36 he thinks he is still teenager and should go out with my 17 & 19 year old sons & their mates
think i,m the only adult in my house
2006-12-18 00:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by miss smidgey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it all depends on the circumstances! Some mature when they become fathers, and some just never do!! SAD!!
2006-12-18 00:07:56 · answer #9 · answered by Dan =] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Some in their 20's, some in their 30's, some never.
2006-12-18 09:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its exatly the same time a women...you get childish and immature blokes, but then the same can be said for women, can ou honestly say you've walked through town and NOT seen a woman wearing 'teenage fashion'?or buying cute toys/dolls/cushions ie 'hello kitty'?
sounds like you've got childish male company, i do feel for you, there are some goods ones out there though....
Mr M.Ature x x
2006-12-18 00:14:36 · answer #11 · answered by ReD eYe ReCoRdS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋