I am in my mid 30's and I live with my parents. I met a wonderful man but my mother doesn't want me to see him. She believes that I should not trust any man because he will hurt me. However she has been married to my father for over 36 years.
2006-12-17 23:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by Arden F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may be the time for you to move out. Since you've been attached to your mother so long that your mother feels too protective. Or, she has been living in your presence too long that she may be too scare to let you go. It really doesn't matter, you should move out. You shouldn't let yourself get held back and it goes same way for your mother.
2006-12-17 23:40:32 · answer #1 · answered by wat~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't live you will not learn! you cannot learn from your mother's mistakes! maybe she sees something in this man which reminds her of someone who hurt her!! This is, however, not the same man. Do you trust your own instincts? Do you think he is the one for you? Then go for it! If you have any doubts be a bit careful! Perhaps you should ask why your mother feels the way she does! Maybe she just thinks that he is not good enough for you! I can imagine a lot of parents feeling this way about anyone thir son or daughter meets (and even marries)
Good luck!
2006-12-18 07:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in your mid 30's and "still living with your parents" then do not get involved with any man, 'couse your mammy says they will hurt ya. Continue living with your mammy/pappy!
Have a great future!!!
2006-12-18 07:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just got to listen to them and then negotiate any further plan's. earn respect than get what you want.
2006-12-18 07:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nathann S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋