2006-12-17 22:45:11 · 15 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hit Man not alway's do nice guy'd finnish last for sometimes women like myself look for the nice guy's cause were tierd off all the creeps who don't know how to be a gentelmen and or nice guy so keep your chin up and know that there are us women out there that appreciate guys like you. Also I like your name for I had a best friend who also went by Hit man who passed away and like you he was a nice guy and all the girls loved him and we miss him terribly so don't stop being the nice guy for i'm sure you too are loved by your gal pals and will also be by that special girl that will be just for you. Happy Holiday's
2006-12-17 22:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mistakes nice guys make are
Being too needy
Unrealistic Expectations/Premeditated Resentments
Idolizing a woman
Living for everyone else but himself and becoming dull
Making his happiness and existence too dependent on his relationships with others
If you recognize your own behavior in this list, you have probably blamed your "niceness" for hindering your relationships with women. Hopefully this article will help you to see and understand exactly where the problem is and what you need to do to fix it.
Here are a few things you can start doing right away to help you to stop making this mistakes with women.
Start saying "No" when you don't want to do someone a favor. "Sorry, I can't" is just as easy to say, and the world won't stop turning if you say no.
Go spend some time with and on yourself...make your life exciting and interesting. Do things you enjoy just because you enjoy it. You deserve this! It's YOUR life!
Don't worship women. They are human, make mistakes and aren't perfect. They are just like you for the most part, and are no better or worse than you are. Don't treat them like they deserve more than you do. If you don't respect yourself women won't respect you either.
You "need" food and water. You "need" shelter. You don't "need" any specific person to create your happiness and make you "somebody". If you feel like you "need" someone else to be happy then your feelings towards that person are NOT healthy. It's healthy to "want" someone to compliment who you ALREADY are, but NOT to "need" someone to define or complete you.
2006-12-17 22:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys do not finish last. Often it seems that way but in the long run being nice pays big dividends.
2006-12-17 22:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't always finish last. Nice guy's are the best kind.
2006-12-17 22:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it like a law of nature....
...similar to "bread always lands butter side down"
i think part of the problem is that nice guys in the end become "walk overs" and never really stand up to their women. women, well the ones i know, like a bit of a challenge sometimes, and we will test our men with rediculous requests/suggestions just to see if they are going to take a stand.
no woman wants a pet, thats why we own dogs,...we want an equal companion.
2006-12-17 22:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because, they wait and wait until the perfect opporunity for each guy comes along.
Time is a factor, waiting and waiting can be all in oneday
Let's hope this is the case
2006-12-17 22:49:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i in my opinion choose effective adult adult males over *******. in keeping with danger it extremely is in simple terms the variety of ladies you're coming near. not all ladies will walk throughout a marvelous guy. in simple terms be your self, and you will discover the main appropriate woman.
2016-12-30 14:24:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that you have to TAKE from the world, none of that courtious what do you want to do or do you like me?, you have to say we're going out and (don't actually say) i don't care if you don't like me, i'll convince you to like me. it means you have to be aggressive and selfish (but not too much) to be successful, in relationships, selling, buisiness whatever. not that it's neccissarily true but that is the implication of why the bad guy cheater wins and mr. niceguy comes in last.
2006-12-17 22:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a cliche'. You'll only finish last if you allow yourself to.
2006-12-17 22:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Vivian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We lose the race because we are spending so much time being nice.
2006-12-17 22:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋