they didnt kiss or something but still..
2006-12-17 22:43:58 · 18 answers · asked by josh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do u know they didnt kiss or do anything else for that matter and if this is what she told you well think again she did say she was seeing a friend ????? if she cant be up front and honest with you dump her what other lies has she told or is going to tell you could be in for a rough ride bail out can trust liers a leopard never changes its spots
2006-12-17 22:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by flossypants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem in that, unless something extra is or has been going on with the two of them and she has not been telling you. If she is is telling the truth that nothing happened (kissing etc), then i'd suggest you do some more research in that regard. If you truly beleive her and that you are sure she has no feelings for her ex, then forgive her and move on.
Don't make hasty decisions that you may regret later on for having made the wrong move.
2006-12-17 23:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by divagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..........I have been in a similar situation and having addressed it, I instantly knew that I was being a little paranoid. (My girl has invited her ex to a party at our house over Christmas)
The thing is that she hasn't really lied to you, she's just been a little economic with the truth. Some people can still be friends with their exes so chances are that's all they are. She could have told you straight but you'd only have kicked up a fuss or beaten yourself up about what they were doing. It's needless worry and I reckon that she was trying to spare you and your ego when there really was nothing to concern yourself with.
2006-12-17 22:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confirm from her, try to know whether she love you or not, the answer that she gave should be your next step. If she still love you ask and know from her why she still choose to see her ex-bf. She may be trying hiding something from you. Don't be a fool. know your source from her and if she is the playing type, I will advice you leave her before getting out of control for you not to hurt someone out there!
2006-12-17 22:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dessy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 10:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Draw the line and let her know you mean business or else she will see that she can get by with it again.
Tell her you need time apart. That way you are not really breaking up, but you have the upper hand and she will want you more.
It might feel like hell right after you do it, but it's better than the pain you'll feel if you catch her cheating on you.
2006-12-17 22:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she make a habitof lying to you? If so, it's time for you to leave. If not, you two need to sit down and talk about it. Why did she feel she had to lie to you? Maybe there are issues that she needs to get out into the open but hasn't had the opportunity to express herself.
2006-12-17 22:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by Cindarella R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, why does she want to go out with her ex when she has you which is way better. Lies are a no, no for a relationship. She might say she is sorry, but she will keep on doing it, over and over again to hurt you.
2006-12-17 22:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Minxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,why would you do that?If you say they didn't even kiss,then,what's the problem?Maybe she didn't want to tell you the truth,'cause she knew you would act drastically (as you're thinking about).
The answer is in you.Let's reverse things a bit, maybe you're not sure you love her (anymore),that's why you're doubting in her love.Usually,that's the case.
2006-12-17 23:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie,the cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive and leave. She's a liar and most likely a tramp , sorry dude. plenty more fishes out there.
2006-12-17 22:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋