ok like i said me and a girl have been together for 2 years from middle school to now (freshmen,) and we kind of mellowed into frieinds instead of bf/gf there was no blowups or anything we just melowed but now i what that bf/gf relationship is there a way to re-start a fire on this and i dont know which way she wants 2 go up or down she is probably the hardest girl 2 judge which way she wants
so what do i do now
sorry for long details
nothing about sex plz
2006-12-17 22:25:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well we all have our weak points one of these days shell say somthing that gives her away but if you really love her TALK TO HER ASK HER !shes the only one that knows what she want s but dont act like you have a big scheme behind it cuz shell pick that up instantly good luck bro
2006-12-17 22:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just need to come right out and ask here what she wants out of any kind of relationship with you. if you two started off bf/gf and just grew apart and feel into just being freinds then obviously the relationship wasn't really a strong standing one to begin with. but if you want her in your life because she is the first thing you think of when you get up and the last thing you think of before you go to sleep and that you love her and want to all that comes with a relationship. then you must let her know how you feel.
Best of luck to you. ...
2006-12-17 22:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by 4mika 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be she is thinking the same thing.
I would sit down with her and ask her if she would like to become closer as a couple, because you are very interested in still being with her. Having a friendship with some one you care for is very good for the relationship.
2006-12-17 22:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by breitlastmouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There'a a reason you've been friends for two years! It's called compatibility! Go for it! Take it to the next level.
2006-12-17 22:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing bad in it, just tell her how you feel and what you want to do, if she will accept you, she will and if she won't, she won't. You are a man and you need to do things like a man.
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2006-12-17 23:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nancy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do people make things so hard in life........look dude .....do this go to the library.....get a book on how to grow some balls in a week.........then ASK HER!!!!!!!!!! if you have known her for two damn years it should be easy.....where do you people come from....amazing!!!
2006-12-17 22:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start treating her like crap. Women love to please men who treat them like crap. You most likely lost your chance to be her boyfriend. Once you are a friend, you are a friend for life. It means she doesn't want to be with you in that way, ever. Otherwise, it would have worked out differently a long time ago.
2006-12-17 22:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
next time..........next time dont .........ask him to make you his gf........purely enable him make the pass........you dont opt to act too clingy and desperate......females ought to act kinda shy and in no way make the 1st pass.......
2016-10-18 10:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋