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Hi all!
I have an issue that keeps coming up over and over again. I'm in a long-distance relationship. I'm 20 and my girlfriend is in 21; we live a 7-hour drive away from each other and see each other once a month.
The thing is, she's attending community college from home and hasn't had the chance to become independent yet - she still relies on her friends a lot.
We have a rule where we have to talk for at least an hour a day without others. Right now she's on a week-long vacation with friends, and has talked to me about 20 minutes for the past 2 days under this rule.
In short, she's been calling me for 2-minute intervals when with friends and when she says she dedicated time to talk to me, and gets interrupted by friends, she hangs up with me to be with them.
We love each other very much, but when this happens, it's painful. I've talked to her about it several times already.
What should I do?

2006-12-17 22:18:54 · 1 answers · asked by Juu 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Oops, must be 3am syndrome, my girlfriend is 18.

2006-12-17 22:53:31 · update #1

1 answers

Tell her one last time that you expect her to talk only with you without any outside or third party intervention.Explain that it hurts you a lot when this happens.If she truely loves you she will understand.If she doesnt make any efforts towards solving this issue,you should move on.Coz you are not destined to get hurt everytime you talk to your gf.
If she doesnt bother to solve it,she's just not that into you.You deserve someone better.

2006-12-17 22:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0 0

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