This guy and I are friends so I told him by BF hit me (not so serious) he didn't ask me why bit he ask my friend..do you think that is strange.. I got angry at him and told him to ask me not my friend. Am I wrong to get angry is he wierd?
2006-12-17 22:07:05 · 13 answers · asked by andinghsiang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He ask a friend not BF
2006-12-17 22:14:51 · update #1
Maybe he though that you would not give him the real version of events but rather the old cover up version that most girls give and wanted the story from and impartial person that's all. no he is not weired but rather sounds like someone that cares a lot about you.
2006-12-17 22:11:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is concerned. Sounds like he is Truly your friend. No man should hit a girl. (Maybe not serious this time,...). Maybe your friend has seen this in the past.
You should not be mad at him. You can sit down with him and tell him that what you confide in him at the time you confide in him, you are telling him just to vent or whatever. If a friend told me that, I would encourage her to leave the guy. If I ever saw a bruise, I would turn the guy in. No woman deserves a beating in any form.
Let me tell you, Most Good friends would do something to protect their friends when it comes to being hit. Things can escalate later and he may not want that to happen. If your friend questioned your Boyfriend, maybe that will make him think twice before he does it again, and worse the next time.
Be thankful you have a friend that is willing to do something.
2006-12-18 06:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No' he's not the strange one' You are because you seem so "Owell" about your bf hitting you. Any time a guy hits you it's serious.
2006-12-18 06:13:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should not be hitting you period! He probably asked your friend because he wanted the truth, if he asked you he knew you would make light of. Your boyfriend should not be hitting you in any way and if you continue to stay with him you are stupid.
2006-12-18 06:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by aprilfools1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tell a friend that your BF is bashing you,then the friend is just trying to look after you,showing you what a good friend he is.
What did you expect to happen by telling him that your BF is bashing you,Did you tell him that you was only joking
2006-12-18 06:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people, don't like to make any comments, specially when this things happened between two people, you want to know why? because the third party already know that you probably not ready to leave the boyfriend, so he gave you respect, he is not weird, that was the best thing.
2006-12-18 06:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend hits you -- ever -- it's abuse and it's a CRIME. Dump the guy. He'll only do it more in the future, no matter how hard you try to be "good." Bad news, hon.
2006-12-18 06:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by joanmazza 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're weird for lying to him about something like that. How bad does that make your b/f look? Spreading lies and rumours like that can be very dangerous, and you are the one that has the problems if you think it is ok to lie like that about someone you are supposed to care about!
2006-12-18 06:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would it be at all possible that you might fancy this guy friend of yours?
2006-12-18 06:10:24 · answer #9 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave your b/f first no matter if he hits you serious or not.
2006-12-18 06:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by FairGround 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋